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My life, my few friends’ lives, my family members’ lives, shit just sucks all around. I can’t remember the last time I went somewhere for lunch and paid less than ten dollars. God, remember when fast food used to be the cheap option with somewhat of a reputation for being poor people food? I sure as hell do because that was like 10 years ago (in my experience at least). It’s so incredibly, incredibly fucking ominous to see that all the cashiers are gone and have been replaced by kiosks.

And part of me understands that this is just the natural progression of technology or whatever the fuck, but there are days where I go without talking to someone in real life. The same shit is happening at pharmacies, grocery stores, even Godamn doctors offices. Am I just being too glass half empty? Every part of this seems like a living nightmare and it just continues to get worse

Every time I go to one of the aforementioned establishments, they’ve added another camera or put another item behind a paywall. This just seems to me like brick and mortar stores are becoming high security centers in an effort to push everyone to purchase online.

I don’t think the downstream effects need to be mentioned here. Gee wonder why everyone is hyper-individualistic

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[–] sewer_rat_420@hexbear.net 6 points 3 hours ago

Every grocery store has two or three security guards, but only one cashier.

I go to the 7/11 near our house for late night snacks, but the prices have astronomically increased as of late. Sure, it was always more expensive then a grocery store, but now they sell a pint of Ben and Jerry's for $10.

Everything is enshittified. Cracker jack just has a sticker for the prize. They are putting potato chips inside Reese's big cups to save a few cents on peanut butter.

And its all set to get exponentially worse. Everyone knows it, but somehow are deluded that a new president will fix it? Or are just accepting that life is going to suck forever.

But at least trump is going to sell weapons to Ukraine

[–] Comrade_Cat@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 hours ago

I’ve started calling it Time Compression. It feels like it did in 2020 just after the pandemic kicked into high gear. Every day feels like a week and a week feels like a day. It feels like you’re unstuck from reality and everything takes this absurdist tint and everyone is holding their breath including you. Like just existing is causing mild dissociation. The streets are empty and cold even though they’re filled with people and the summer heat is strangling you. Past memories of how things “should” have been or could have been merge and overlap with the here and now. Hauntology in waking life.

I’m not necessarily a believer in any kind of literal collective unconscious, but it feels like it did exist and someone unplugged it again.

Anyways, I felt it start to settle in at the beginning of the year and it hasn’t let up much yet.

In reality though I’m probably just getting old, read too much news, and don’t have enough friends.

[–] ikilledtheradiostar@hexbear.net 5 points 4 hours ago

I had to ask a 7/11 clerk to unlock the Monster fridge. They were the sole worker for a medium traffic location.

[–] peppersky@hexbear.net 14 points 8 hours ago

Capitalism has won and is doing victory laps again and again and again, destroying all the beauty and live and love that once existed on this planet. If you've got a soul you've got no chance to survive in this world

[–] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 17 points 9 hours ago

The vibes are fucked for sure.

[–] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 27 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (4 children)

All I do is kinda read vibes. I'm less educated than a lot of comrades here. What I do have is 2 solid decades of experience in the working world, and the life experiences one accumulates in that time. So while I might not be able to articulate it perfectly I do think I've gotten pretty good at reading the vibes.

And right now the vibes are very off. Like we're all in a boat that just scraped a rocky bottom and we're all frozen in place, waiting for the first sign of the ship sinking before we react, losing time we might not get back.

[–] nothx@hexbear.net 8 points 7 hours ago

I love this analogy, it pretty perfectly describes how I’m feeling, however my experience also leads me to believe that a massive swath of people never even showed up to dock.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 18 points 13 hours ago

Yeah I've noticed the weird vibe since around the start of the year? I can't put it into words. Is this what hyper normalisation at the crumbling end of an empire feels like? Everyone's so, uh, cold? Is that the right word?

[–] boiledfrog@hexbear.net 17 points 13 hours ago

Vibes are absolutely fucked all over. Since a while there has been this large push to completely ignore the coming climate disasters (I want some fucking rain please). COVID (which happened for similar reasons, global travel and livestock, two key sources of the problems at hand) supercharged this and the response of "ignore it, get back to work and act like nothing happened" make everything even more fucked, we're all getting fucked over, the near future is terrifying, we're alienated to a crazy degree and we all know it, we can all feel it.

Now is the time of monsters.

(The positive side to this, they are running out of ideas and are panicking so they resort to violent repression and war. Keep pushing back)

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 14 points 13 hours ago

Given a dichotomy between real-life experience and study, I tend to think real-life experience is at least a little more valuable, but you might find it really helpful to study at least a little bit. Some people resign themselves to just not ever engaging with theory directly (idk if you do) but it doesn't need to be that way for anyone, even if some people are going to be more involved in one that the other.

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 27 points 14 hours ago

sinclair There is one kind of prison where the man is behind bars, and everything he desires is outside; and there is another kind where the things are behind the bars, and the man is outside.

[–] Abracadaniel@hexbear.net 26 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

It ain't just you the vibes are fucked.

[–] Hohsia@hexbear.net 14 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I’m also curious how people in China are handling it because we’re just adopting what they’ve had going on for awhile. This automated way of doing things is alienating no matter what system it happens under

[–] Are_Euclidding_Me@hexbear.net 16 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I don't think that necessarily follows. Now, sure, I've never been to China, I have no idea what it's like over there, so this comment is pretty much purely hypothetical.

All I'm saying is that I don't think automating away service industry jobs is necessarily bad for social cohesion. Like, if I had friends and the ability to hang out with them somewhere pleasant, I don't think I'd mind ordering food from a kiosk instead of a person. The issue here in America is that I don't have friends, and there is basically nowhere to hang out that's pleasant that doesn't cost a bajillion dollars. It's definitely true that the majority of my social interaction happens with customer service people, but those aren't real relationships, they're never any deeper than like 3 sentences of pleasantries, they can't replace genuine human connection (and shouldn't have to, even though they kind of do for many people, me included).

I don't think the automation is the problem, I think it's the lack of third spaces, the lack of any sort of community social events I would enjoy (or could afford), and just generally living in a society where everyone is struggling to make ends meet, where everyone is stressed and miserable.

[–] LargeAdultRedBook@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

There is no community in America, only disjoint pockets of shared loneliness. What OP is noticing is that the substitutes for this lack of real community (work socialization, social interaction in stores & restaurants) is being replaced by automation, making the brief periods of respite from loneliness fewer.

There are very few free public places to meet people. Fewer people have the money to go shopping, bar hopping, or clubbing than ever before, so the only places for social atmosphere are out of reach for many.

[–] Are_Euclidding_Me@hexbear.net 1 points 2 hours ago

Right, I think you and I are saying the same thing. My only point is simply that it's not automation of service industry jobs that's causing this loneliness. I commented mostly to say: I don't think China is worse socially than America, even though China has more automation of service industry jobs than America does.

[–] peeonyou@hexbear.net 23 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

seriously.. last few weeks i'm just tired of everything.. all around.. just.. tired and don't care anymore

[–] nothx@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago

I thought this feeling was due to my specific circumstances, but it’s comforting to know that my baseline exhaustion is shared by others.

[–] Hohsia@hexbear.net 18 points 14 hours ago

It’s out of control. Capital won’t slow down until it’s taken the last resource with it

[–] CocteauChameleons@hexbear.net 14 points 13 hours ago

It depends where you live I feel like, I live in Florida and people with extreme social anxiety probably have a hard time living here. Everyone wants to yap your ear off here including myself sometimes

[–] BelieveRevolt@hexbear.net 13 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

And part of me understands that this is just the natural progression of technology or whatever the fuck, but there are days where I go without talking to someone in real life. The same shit is happening at pharmacies, grocery stores, even Godamn doctors offices.

Yeah, I was just thinking about this the other day, probably makes sound like a ”phone bad” boomer, but I really hate how everything is tied to smartphones and/or the internet now. Some things are more convenient for sure, but on the flip side even my gym changed to a system where you have to scan a QR code with a phone to get in.

I really do think things were better when you could only get online whenever you were at a computer, things really went downhill when you could do it at any time. I guess if you really like social media you're happy about being able to access it at any time, but I hate social media and have essentially no presence there. I really don't want to give those bloodsucking corporations any more of my info, especially knowing that most of them are US based and I don't want to give the US government anything if I can help it.

[–] peeonyou@hexbear.net 3 points 4 hours ago

the QR code shit needs to die