LadyButterfly

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Yep it's a winning combination

You make an excellent point, we all have internalised misogyny it's just how much. You've shown real strength seeing this and refusing to accept it

That's a great way of looking at it

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It's ok you've got your sisters here to hold you up

Now that's a true strength!

I passionately agree

Yep, a lot of young people need advice

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Yes extremists on both sides can be truly awful. Plus some people are just aggressive, it's nasty to deal with and really aggravated things

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

What would you reduce instead?

That's really kind of you thanks. I'm glad you're here 💓

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 hours ago (5 children)

I didn't say get rid of, I said reduce.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

I had a horrible childhood, so I learned how to constantly assess other people's emotions. It's a massive strength, it helps me help others but also protects me. It gives me strength cos I know I'm really good at it.

It made me really resilient, I survive everything. No matter what happens I come out ok. I know that, and it gives me strength

It also made me funny which can be useful for defusing situations, helping distract people and helping groups bond.

 

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