No, not at all. I appreciate the understanding. I'm also not commenting at all on whether or not "men have it worse" or whatever other nonsense the person said to you. I have no idea what the actual rates are of sexual harassment is for men or if they are ignored more or less than women on a systemic level. I have absolutely no data on that. I just know what it was like for me and the very few times I've heard stories from other men in this regard of assault and harassment the stories are similar.
I do think there is another issue with men is that some of us are socialized to not even recognize harassment and/or assault when it happens to us. I've seen men talk about these kinds of experiences online and other men express how that wasn't assault because "that happened to me." Like, my brother, you are in denial!
one of the most intoxicating feelings there is