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Cardiac arrest, also known as Sudden Cardiac Arrest, is when the heart stops beating suddenly. The lack of blood flow to the brain and other organs can cause a person to lose consciousness, become disabled or die if not treated immediately.

The terms ‘heart attack’ and ‘cardiac arrest’ are often used interchangeably, but these are two different heart conditions.

A heart attack occurs when there is a blockage in the arteries that stops blood flow in the heart. Due to the lack of blood and oxygen flowing in the heart, the heart muscle tissue will become damaged. Heart attacks can increase the risk for cardiac arrest because heart attacks can alter electrical signals in the heart.

CPR – or Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation – is an emergency lifesaving procedure performed when the heart stops beating. Immediate CPR can double or triple chances of survival after cardiac arrest.

If someone experiences cardiac arrest, they need immediate treatment to increase the flow of oxygen-rich blood to their organs. CPR is the compression over the chest to manually pump a patients heart. Rescue breaths are preformed to provide oxygen to the body.

During CPR, proper hand placement on the lower half of the sternum is crucial. Placing hands over the sternum ensures effective chest compressions directly above the heart, optimizing blood circulation throughout the body.

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), the overall survival rate for out-of-hospital cardiac arrest is around 10%. However, survival rates can be improved if bystander CPR is started immediately. Studies have shown that bystander CPR increases the chances of survival for someone experiencing cardiac arrest. In fact, the AHA reports that survival rates increases to 40% or higher when bystander CPR is performed promptly. The surival rate is between 24% and 40% for those that happen in the hospital, according to the report published online in the Emergency Medicine Journal.

CPR is preformed between 100 - 120 beats per minute. Famously Staying Alive by the Bee Gees is the same beat. A large list of songs with the correct BPM can be found here


cure-for-fascism The American Red Cross gives the following list of steps to asses if CPR is needed and how to preform:

1 CHECK the scene for safety, form an initial impression and use personal protective equipment (PPE)

2 If the person appears unresponsive, CHECK for responsiveness, breathing, life-threatening bleeding or other life-threatening conditions using shout-tap-shout

3 If the person does not respond and is not breathing or only gasping, CALL 9-1-1 and get equipment, or tell someone to do so

4 Kneel beside the person. Place the person on their back on a firm, flat surface

5 The American Red Cross CPR guidelines recommend 100 to 120 chest compressions per minute, 30 at a time. Remember these five points:

Hand position: Two hands centered on the chest

Body position: Shoulders directly over hands; elbows locked

Compression depth: At least 2 inches

Rate of compressions: 100 to 120 per minute

Allow chest to return to normal position after each compression

6

Give 2 breaths

Open the airway to a past-neutral position using the head-tilt/chin-lift technique Pinch the nose shut, take a normal breath, and make complete seal over the person’s mouth with your mouth. Ensure each breath lasts about 1 second and makes the chest rise; allow air to exit before giving the next breath Note: If the 1st breath does not cause the chest to rise, retilt the head and ensure a proper seal before giving the 2nd breath If the 2nd breath does not make the chest rise, an object may be blocking the airway

7 Continue giving sets of 30 chest compressions and 2 breaths. Use an AED as soon as one is available! Minimize interruptions to chest compressions to less than 10 seconds.

Video instructions

Sources:

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/cardiac-arrest

https://cpr.heart.org/en/resources/cpr-facts-and-stats

https://www.mycprcertificationonline.com/blog/cpr-success-rate

Instructional images from the AHS Basic Life Support Manual (2020)

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Geeze a lot has happened since the last time I posted. It's been an eventful and transy month for me. Let's see, where to begin?

long winded recap of the last month

My husband told his mom and sister about me. He wanted to be the one to break the news, so I left it up to him. His sister is absolutely fine with it, but I knew she would be. His mom is I guess confused but ok with it. She's way more confused about him being ace than me being trans. His brother is another story. We aren't telling him for a while.

I confronted my mom. I came out to her a few months ago, but she keeps misgendering me and stuff on the phone. She was in town so I flat out told her this is happening and I'd like it if she got with the program. She's doing better since our talk, but she still keeps misgendering me, but I think that's more habit than malicious.

I have my second appointment with at the awesome gender clinic tomorrow. It will most likely be my last because they are closing in a few months. Which is extremely sad. However, I'm still excited to go. I had blood work last week and got my results yesterday and my levels are fantastic. E was at 213, while t was just 6. Big win for IM estrogen and bica. It's been 3 months now officially and things are coming along nicely. I'm pretty sure I have the titty growing gene cause these things are starting to be a whole situation.

And for the most memorable thing that happened in the last month is that my husband and I went and saw one of our favorite bands. He found the band back in February, right after I came out to him and he was still struggling with it. The band is a folk band called Tophouse, and almost all their songs are sappy little love songs. I absolutely love them, and my husband credits them for helping him accept me and us and our future. He got us the tickets in March as a sign of his acceptance and it's kinda been a milestone approaching that I've been looking forward to for a long time.

Anyway, we got a really cool hotel room for the night. The venue was outdoors, in the queer part of town. The weather was incredible. The band was absolutely fantastic. I ended up crying like 4 times out of pure joy because of how much the night meant to me. E is a hellofa drug because I've never cried like that in my life. Afterwards we went bowling because the hotel our room was in had a vintage bowling alley in it. We were the only ones there and it was so fun and really special. He even put my girl name on the scorecard. All in all the night was really special and I love him so much.

Beyond all of that, I've started looking for a new job. I need to get out of the blue collar trades. I don't want to work on an industrial environment around chuds anymore. What little patience I had for them has completely evaporated and I'm so tired of coming home covered in scrates and bruises from the work. There are a few data centers being built nearby, and tho I don't want to contribute to that for ethical reasons, it would be a nice way to change careers in the short term.

Anyway, my ramble is over. One last thing tho:

I love my trans comrades! cat-trans

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

GOOD POST soviet-huff

His mom is I guess confused but ok with it. She's way more confused about him being ace than me being trans.

This made me grin, Idk why but this is so funny to me. Mom is like YOU DONT WANT SEX??????? lol lmao

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Legitimately it's absolutely hilarious. I was so amused when he told me her reaction.

YOU DONT WANT SEX?!?!

This is 100% how it went. She was like "ok I guess that wake is a girl now, but what do you mean you don't want sex and never have? "

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think my mom probably suspects it about me by now. But like, I also never have dated so it's more obvious, but for some reason it seems weird your BF'd mom would be caught so off guard.

Tbf, my mom also didn't believe me when I was like 10 and told her I just wouldn't have sex when she was trying to reach about things like std, pregnancy, and condoms... but I think it's normal to not believe a prepubescent child on that.

So BF is black-stripe ace, not demi/grey?

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He identifies as demi/grey. But that's ever harder to explain to her. He tried to, but she was even more confused.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 10 points 1 month ago

I can imagine. Too many people will be like "oh, you do want sex. It's normal to not want to have sex with everyone" kind of thing, missing both the difference between liking sex and experiencing sexual attraction and the difference in frequency or causes of sexual attraction between allo and grey/demi aces.

Sometimes the reaction to aces by people who are otherwise not homophobic kinda reminds me of the reaction some religious people have to atheists vs followers of other religions: "we believe in different gods, but at least they believe in something. You believe in nothing".

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Wake@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

I know, right! data-laughing

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I flat out told her this is happening and I'd like it if she got with the program

Love this energy.

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Yeah I was kinda done being nice. Up to that point I was generally letting things slide simply because I didn't want to upset my mom. We have a very good relationship, and I was trying my best to keep things cordial. But the time had come to bluntly tell her that I wasnt going to tolerate it anymore. I'm a fully grown adult who is self sufficient. I don't want to go no contact, but I can if that's the choice they make. I made it clear it was her choice to make. She would be the one to decide. She can get with it, or I can go away. Going NC is 100% not something I want to do. But if she can't respect me, then I have no obligation to speak to her.

She apologized and told me all her struggles and worries. But ultimately those struggles and worries are hers to deal with, and they don't mean she can't respect me in the meantime.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

Oh damn, you made it even better!

Good work. That took guts, and it should kick her into shape

[–] magi@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sounds like things have been working out well despite some bumps in the road. Your night out sounded really great too!

Really nice hearing things have been going great for you long may they continue! cat-trans

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

Thanks for the well wishes! The good has definitely outweighed the bad so far. My night out was easily one of the best nights of my life. cat-trans

[–] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

thank u for sharing & all the best cat-trans