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The lady at the Visa office said I look no older than 21 when she saw my age.
idk how much of that was just flattery.
She also called my hair beautiful.
Maybe she was just being nice because she could tell I was trans.
Oh I get that feel too.
My wife told that she stopped complimenting boys when the 100th one in a row thought it meant she wanted to make out. Whereas women will take the compliment and not make it weird!
Maybe your hair just looked nice and you look like a person who can take a compliment!
impossible, that would require me to first look like a girl.
oof i meant person i apologize 😞
you're good, I am just being a whiner
100 in a row? Not even the occasional person who just assumed that she's being sarcastic and actually insulting them?
well i imagine she probably was being hyperbolic and then i amplified that? i don't believe she kept count. She changed the way she dresses and behaves because of unwanted attention from men at work and in public though and generally feels annoyed that she had to learn to be less friendly to be left alone that way.
i'm inheriting a ton of lovely femme clothes from her and they are all very lightly used vs the masculine stuff she wears to work and that was her explanation why when I asked why she didn't wear the pretty stuff more.
maybe she just thought your hair was beautiful?
Naturally, every puppy is fawned over and complimented
A few years back I was boarding a long-distance bus ride and when the guy asked for my ID he looked back and forth a few times before saying "you look young!" like he was angry with me about that.
More recently though a coworker told me she thought I was in my 40s
Trans women just age kinda funny I guess.
Oof