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In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".
From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it"). Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").
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Poiting out my current stim phrases to bully myself
Somewhere somehow someway, I picked up saying "it rocks/it rules" or "this rocks/this rules" or similar about fucking EVERYTHING, both ironically as a shitpost and unironically for some reason.I am not sure where this phrase comes from, I think it is Orange Book. Maybe it's when she says "it's not even ironic: Poison rules" about the big patch of the first Poison album cover on the back of her stupid denim jacket? My brain remembers that she was describing something terrible with "which rules" or something.
Please send help.
One time like 8 years ago I talked to someone at the park who said "that's fair" like every other sentence. I still regularly fall into doing that now as a result. Rocks/rules seems better to me.
jeeeez you gotta call me out like this? recognizing our own vocal habits/stims is like staring into the abyss, i'll never speak again if i think about it too hard, so uh, i say "that's fair" a lot
Is that you Jazzhands?
I fear occasionally that these things will stick in my vocab longterm
in the same boat lol. i picked up saying "rocks" a good while ago though, i just find it to be such a fun americanism. "rules" is definitely used like a handful of times or more in orange book and i have begun using that too as a result.
on a personal note, i try not to overanalyze whether I'm saying stuff "ironically" or not these days, if something is fun to say I just allow myself to say it. autism is like that and overthinking the irony aspect can come a little close to performing a value judgement for me which I wanna avoid, like trying not to police my own innocuous language and instead just realizing it's nbd either way. I'm anti-the concept of irony anyway at least in the sense it's been used online for the last while and think we need to transcend it lol.
Orange book my beloved
I try not to think a lot about that either though, I tried jettisoning "rocks/rules" from my vocab but not stimming with it actually kinda sucked, so here I am tbh. Death to irony!
saying things rule fucking slaps tho, especially if you're like double-post-ironic about it.
tbh my use of these phrases is completely unironic, i'm bringing them back
edit: but I could get more use out of them if i started using them ironically as well... hmm....
When I say "ironic" I mean describing things that suck badly as rocking, lol. The Halloween movies are still doing the "teenagers are having sex so MICHAEL MYERS MUST KILL THEM" forty years later, which rules =) it can be funny!
the halloween movies rule (ironic) tbh