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Final Fantasy XI

Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!

During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.

Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.

He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.

However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”

After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!

I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!

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[–] thoughtful_poster@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

>guy adds me from 4chan
>my post said no sex
>he keeps trying to take me on a date
>we have a rly good conversation anyway, he's well read
>eventually he says something that gets me flustered while im high
>tell him the next morning i just got out of a traumatic breakup and needed time to grow on my own, so not to expect anything to happen for a while
>he doesn't respond for a week
>just get "hi" a week later at 2am
>respond the next morning
>1 day later, now, he still hasn't replied
im unironically too poorly socialised to understand this behaviour. it sucks bcus tbh i spent all week half fantasising about spending my life together (sorry for posting cringe). can someone tell me what this means please

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (2 children)

He wanted to have sex and you weren't ready, is what it sounds like, so he tried anyway and you (wisely) didn't budge.

Also don't date people from 4chan

[–] thoughtful_poster@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 month ago

i think there's some really great people there that would be impossible to meet otherwise there's just a lot of not amazing people too.. personally i'm going to keep doing it because i have no problems setting boundaries. it's a shame he only wanted s*x

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

I don’t believe 4chan is real.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

"Guy adds me from 4chan" for free the worst mistake I have ever made.

[–] thoughtful_poster@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

Dw you can find people who don't suck elsewhere doggirl-happy

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

CW revolting shit from my pastyeah i have a whole story about someone who like had a big crush on me, but was also a fascist /pol/ user, and i was too lib to block him for a couple of years... not my proudest moment, i was pretty lonely and was/is pretty terrible at people so i appreciated the positive attention.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh no not liberalism LIB What is it with these fucking loser fash dorks and crushing on transfems? I mean really, how-compelling

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

lol that was always the funniest part to me too, i never really understood, i was too afraid to ask

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I can tell you from experience that it isn't worth it omori-miserable This type of thing exists on a gradient with one end labelled "fetishisation", and the other labelled "I am too far down the alt-right rabbit hole to crack my egg". Hateful shit.

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

absolutely true, but i was even sillier and more adorable back then than I am today

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

i thought i'd try the saying nice words to myself thing today lol ngl one of my favourite parts of that Literary Work (I am tired)

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Which Literary Work, but based tbh.

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

nsfw do not read this my brain is brokenuh "Literary Work" was me being a bit tongue in cheek, it is Wellness Check