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I told my friend I love her and wanted to kiss her again (we went on a date recently and we known each other for like 10 years)

I felt like the only responsible thing was to be honest and now I am losing my mind waiting to hear from her again.

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[–] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 17 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Go for it, Nako... At least you've tried!

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 20 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I'm not afraid of rejection I'm afraid of her wanting to be in a relationship lol.

Rejection I can shrug off, it's falling in love again that terrifies me.

[–] TraschcanOfIdeology@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

This is going to be corny af, but falling in love is like a roller-coaster: it's supposed to be scary but exciting and crazy and it all happens so fast.

Sending you the best vibes so you can enjoy the ride

[–] Allero 1 points 3 weeks ago

Ohhh So, I'm kinda new here and not aware of your stories, but, I gotta say that, relationships can absolutely be healthy and beautiful, and you seem to be the perfect person to have them :)

You're careful, but thoughtful, decisive even if scared, ready to learn on your experiences, and you value whatever she can give to you. That's a good sign!