mutual_aid
Users cannot assume that any post has been vetted and must do their own investigation.
RULES:
- All mutual aid requests must go in this community.
- Mods do not vet individual mutual aid requests. Donate at your own risk.
- Do not request donations for funding anything explicitly illegal.
- Comments giving unsolicited advice will be removed. (See below)
- Comments or posts that are critical of any mutual aid post or user will be removed. (See below)
- Posts containing opsec leaks will be removed.
Additionally:
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If you are open to non-monetary aid please indicate so in your post
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If you wish to provide unsolicited advice/resources, then please make a separate post in this community
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Other types of non-specific meta posts about other users may be made in the !feedback@hexbear.net community
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If you have concrete evidence of something even remotely suspicious, do not hesitate to bring it to the attention of a moderator for review via direct message
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We strongly advise you ask people to send you a direct message to obtain information regarding payment to prevent inadvertent opsec leaks.
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Please consider posting once a day and editing the title of a mutual aid post to include [Covered] or [Need Met] when a request has been satisfied or goal met.
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Consider not making comments about receiving large donations, or about what that money is spent on.
Moderator Pinning Rules:
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Moderators are strictly prohibited from promoting/endorsing/pinning individual mutual aid requests (especially those of their own) as this creates unfair post visibility and could therefore benefit more from that than the standard user. Moderators caught engaging in this behavior will be swiftly removed from the moderator board with extreme prejudice.
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Moderators are allowed to pin and crosspost donation requests for large scope issues such as natural disaster relief funds and bail funds ((Example)[https://hexbear.net/post/16574) along with other crowd or moderator-compiled informational resources pertaining to donating or volunteering (Example), so long as the utmost due diligence is done prior to endorsement, especially in the case of directing people to donate to non-profit organizations.
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Financial documents of non-profit organizations available to the public must be heavily scrutinized before moderator endorsement, and links to those must also be included in the endorsement post to help the community make their own decision if they should donate.
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Hi! I am one of Mem’s friends that’s trying our best reaching out to people so they can have the funds to survive, the link to their GFM is this as the link on the flyer stopped working. http://tinyurl.com/MemGFM
If you’re not able to give anything or much, sharing and asking others would be really helpful and all of us would appreciate it a lot!
I was just on call with Mem until 4am, they have been through and is going through so much, yet they still asked me how I am doing and was so caring and supportive towards me despite the fact if they, their roomate and cat can’t get somewhere to live ASAP, due to their disability, they will very likely die (they are waiting to hear back from a place on Monday, and it apparently costs hundreds of money to apply to rent at places, wtf)
and in fact, despite being in so much stress and need themselves they give to other mutual aid asks when they can and amplify them whenever they could. That kindness really made a permanent impact on me and I aspire to be more like Mem.
Personally I haven’t been able to sleep because I just wish Mem and everyone in need can get the resources they need to survive, but this isn’t about me but Mem’s survival.
From reaching out to my friends I have been able to raise $87 so far and our goal is $3k! Please reach out to me if you want to be involved in our little group chat 🫡 Thank you for reading!
I also want to add that you are qualified for an art commission if you have given $20 dollars and there’s a raffle for Mem as well!

Alt text: INCENTIVES, @menage_a_livre is hosting a raffle on X! Starting at $5. @salvatorised on X also offers commissions! Raffle Prizes! Some prizes include a digital portrait, a blind date with a book, beaded bracelets, annotation kits, and more!
Runner up prizes also include a digital portrait, an annotation kit, and more! First 20 entries receive a sticker!