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I've seen it work, people do fall in love with people very different from them.
But I do think literally everything else needs to look ok, and regardless "still in undergrad" should be a giant red flag.
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If you're more than a few years out of undergrad, that is. My personal line where I'll start critiquing friends actions is that. My own is way, way closer to my own age (old)
Oh okay. Thought you were shitting on people for entering/graduating late.