I hope we all know this and are just doing it as a bit, but sometimes I do see shit on this website that makes me go “Oh y’all are genuinely just weird prudes”
The “gooner epidemic” is not real, gooning is an incredibly niche kink that very few people engage in.
“Porn addiction” is basically non existent and affects such a small portion of the population as to not be relevant. The idea that most people have in their heads about porn addiction is propaganda made up by evangelicals.
We do not live in an overly-sexually-liberated time. There is not an excess of sexual content or exposure to it.
Most of the time when people talk about “the gooner problem” what they’re actually talking about is a mix of two unrelated things, people living normal sexually liberated lives, and undersocialized young men that don’t know how to interact with people.
Sex is good. We should be having more of it. We should encourage healthy, safe sex featuring whatever kinks you and your partner(s) consent to. Don’t fall for puritan propaganda comrades.
honestly voIcel police is just a really tired meme. that said I do really value the anti-horny culture of this particular board, it's played a big part in keeping this a good space for people that aren't cis men I think.
Agreed. Making c/porn invite-only was a great idea.
I c/porn I eat it
This hits me right where i like my brain tickled
this is kinda funny considering the horniest part of hexbear is the trans mega
that's the point. If you let everyone be unrelentingly horny you'd have a lot of cis people and random chasers making others uncomfortable. There's the entire rest of the internet for that. But a place that actively roots out the chasers and weirdos and provides some trans-specific spaces, is a safer place to express things about being trans, including sexuality. I mean there are trans ppl being horny on twitter or whatever but they receive a stream of chasers, incels, reactionaries, etc. harassing them in DMs and not everyone is up for that especially early on in transition, nor should they have to be
Trans mega isn’t that horny all things considered, but some people do go overboard on occasion still.
to be clear i wasn't complaining or anything, it's just pretty much the only place on hexbear i've seen anyone be horny at all really, except as a joke responding to a meme or something
As they should. Queer sexuality is demonized and marginal. I am personally ace and lowkey volcel, yet it doesnt challenging horniness is something that can be done blindly and equally.
Part of my point is that in our society all sexuality is demonized, queer or not, kinky or vanilla.
ironic
Yeah, just feels like another case of overcorrecting in some ways, but it's 100% better than the alternative.
Its an historic element, a holdover from the r/chapotraphouse times, were actually "horny on main" people would like thirst over AOC's feet or any other marginal attractive woman.
Sure, but nowadays its just redundant spam that gets brought in with a hair trigger at the slightest mention of anything.
Idk its similar to the amber bot thing. Despite that podcast being of decreasing relevance since 2016.
Amber.