Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith
Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life
She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day
I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl
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Trying to figure out what I potentially want to do with my hair going forward, but itβs hard because you see people with all kinds of hairstyles but you have no idea if your hair is suitable for it or what they have done to it necessarily.
I'm kinda in this phase rn too, what my friends told me to do was to ask my hairstylist literally everything while I was getting my haircut. What kind of hair do I have, what products are you using, what styles can I make with this, etc...
For general stuff I second Terminal's post.
Ugh, I prefer not to talk at all at the haircutters
I understand, but it's a lot easier to communicate what you want and learn how to care for it if you do. Plus who knows, maybe you can make a friend.
You should try shoulder length hair or a little longer, with bangs, framing hair on the sides. Use a good shampoo and conditioner but only wash your hair every other day (still wash the rest of your body every day). Use argan oil, a small amount from mid length to ends, but only when you wash your hair.
You should also try a blow out with curls, you should get your hair braided including braids overnight, you should try a fun loose bun, try a bunch of stuff!
Wtf doxxing my hair and haircare routine without even seeing me...
(Also the argan oil only being for mid or lower explains a lot of why it looked awful when I tried it years ago...)