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[–] neukenindekeuken@sh.itjust.works 73 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Yeah, honestly, as much as I want there to be some drama here, he probably did this to himself by accident. The kid punching him story is stupid, fake, gay, dumb, etc. Nobody really believes that shit.

If someone did actually punch him, he would have lost his shit, there would be a much larger fallout.

He's just a drug addict (not a bad thing, lots of beautiful people are, let's not shame), who is abusing others around him as a result of his drug abuse. He probably just hit his head on something while fucked on Special K/E/Adderall/etc.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 50 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I think most addicts would disagree with you that being an addict isn't a bad thing.

[–] neukenindekeuken@sh.itjust.works 57 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Hating addicts for being addicts, is a bad thing. They're still people, with full lives, and can be wonderful humans. They may also need help, or they may choose not to get help. The point being, we shouldn't judge people based on whether or not they're an addict.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 days ago

Noone said they were hating him for his drug use. Being a drug addict is a bad thing by definition. If it wasnt a negative for the person we wouldnt call it addiction.

Unfortunately drug addicts are "judged" because they are simply riskier to associate with than a sober person. I'm not sure how many sober people are actually left though, and most people won't disclose their drug addictions.

[–] My_IFAKs___gone@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Mate was pivotal in reframing my perspective on addiction and addicts.

[–] Prime@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Sorry, could you summarize how?

[–] My_IFAKs___gone@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

It expanded my understanding of their socioeconomic plight, psychological suffering, and physiological vicious cycle, exacerbated by ineffective draconian punitive measures implemented by government. It's a truly excellent and compassionate book, I found the discussion on brain chemistry fascinating as well, and should be easy enough to find with Libby or at a local library.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Most people are drug addicts. Almost everyone I know is addicted to caffeine. Addiction sucks, but being an addict isn't necessarily bad. It's when it starts causing issues in your life or you can't handle yourself properly that it's a problem.

[–] YesButActuallyMaybe@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago (3 children)
[–] chuymatt@startrek.website 4 points 2 days ago

Carbohydrates are needed for our bodies to function, so sugar is a bit different.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago

Yeah, I think I've read that sugar is more addictive than cocaine. Put simply, we're all addicted to things. I don't know if anyone in this world can truly say they aren't an addict. Some addiction are just more socially acceptable, but that just brings to light that addiction isn't the issue, it's the behavior. You should be allowed to be addicted to what you want as long as it doesn't harm others.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Virtually everyone is addicted to sugar, to the point that most people can't imagine that it's an addiction... until they try to stop.

[–] vovo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

...stupid, fake, gay, dumb... --> 75 upvotes on lemmy

[–] neukenindekeuken@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

It's a greentext meme. Everything on 4chan is "fake/gay".

It's not being used in a serious context here.

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"That's how they do it on 4chan" is probably one of the worst possible justifications for one's behaviour.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish -1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I mean, even the various LGBT sub reddits commonly use that Chang in community saying "HA, GAAAY!" gif to various number of up votes.

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think context matters. My queer friends and I will call each other the f-slur, but I wouldn't use it at a family supper, for example. Likewise, I think the tone is different using "gay" in a queer meme community versus in a serious discussion on a news community.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish 2 points 2 days ago

I'm not defending the flippant use of it in day to day conversation. But considering this community (Lemmy) I think it's fairly safe to say they were not being homophobic.

I shut that shit down quick with some Gen z roommates I had when they said it everyone they died in a video game. For context, I am two standard deviations to the right of the bell curve when it comes to largeness, and I don't mean I was fat. My mom considered herself bi, but is married to a woman. After relaying that info to said roommate, I didn't hear it again.

That being said, I don't think that type is prone to the jumping through technological hoops required to create an account here.

[–] zr0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 3 days ago

Not trying to give credit to Elonazi. I just remembered that my kid (~19 months) smashed the babyphone onto my head. I would have gotten a black eye for sure if he would have hit it. Still love him. My son, not Elonazi, of course.