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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn

spoilerroaring knight?

it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.

also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments


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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Honestly, you probably are. I've not met ONE trans femme who actually rates how pretty they are, they are forever saying theyre ugly or clocky or whatever - meanwhile some of the prettiest women I've ever fucking seen.

I, of course, suffer from exactly the same problem and while I've been told Im very pretty I also cant see it in a mirror! 😭

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

::: spoiler I'm the cutest girl alive so I'd be the exception 🀭

(Please ignore the fact that my confidence in my appearance goes down the drain whenever I'm not feeling great and that the only reason I'm even able to reach those levels sometimes is the flood of constant compliments on my appearance that I've been getting since even before HRT coupled with my own "fake it till you make it" mantras like the whole "cutest girl alive" schtick.)

((Honestly though most of the time I do believe it nowadays, it's only when I'm really, really down that I don't. I even think pre-E me is prettier than I gave her credit for some days.))

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

We'll have to meet because I think I'm so goddamn pretty. Like before transition I was an effeminately beautiful man and so I didn't really hate looking at myself (as long as I had shaved), but now I'm like "Wow!" when I look at myself. Same for my body, I was really happy with a mix of defined lean muscles from rowing and softness from indulging, but now there's breasts coming in too!

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I have a similar body kinda, have you lost the lean muscles on hrt?

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It’s only been 4 months on HRT and I’ve kept rowing so no noticeable difference.

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago

Wonderful, thank you!!

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 9 points 5 days ago

I know it must be mental because some days I think I'm really pretty and others I look like a blown out dude.

I don't think my face is changing that much day to day πŸ€”