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It's mainly a lack of social skills due to never dating the way most people do combined with autism. Being social in a situation where I can't see or hear the person is really difficult unless I know them extremely well. I'm always worrying that I'll say something stupid and fuck it up.
I'm autistic too and i know exactly what you mean; I matched with my current girlfriend a year ago on a dating app and chatted with her. We had met once at the gym so I thought she was just being nice you know? I ended up deleting my account and the app.
I tried again a few weeks ago and matched her again and this time i actually figured it out and that she was interested. (it still took a couple days though)
I have found that 'would you like to get coffee sometime?' is pretty safe but if there's no flirting you might end up in the same position at the coffee shop. But you'll be in the position to see and hear them at least!