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I hope its ok for me to make this post. F1NN5TER is coming out as genderfluid. He still prefers He/him pronouns but is ok with any pronouns. Good for him. He is also coming out as bisexual.

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[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 65 points 7 months ago (3 children)

i'm still bitter about the whole 'playing into trap jokes' thing he was doing for a while but i hope she's doing well, i wish em luck and hope ze's grown

[–] WitchHazel@lemmygrad.ml 35 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Idk

I'm pretty much completely unwilling to forgive him for the way that affected me materially, meaning I legitimately had people comparing me directly to him because of his ambiguity and flippancy with joking about things that I torture myself over, like getting bottom surgery.

He hasn't done anything positive for me, and I can only say that he possibly helped the community by being visible, but I would be lying to you if I said I really believed that. He can do better, and I hope this is the start of him trying, because as it stands I've only been hurt by the things he's produced.

Good to see you again, Cromalin. Sorry that it's always me with the depressing takes.

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 25 points 7 months ago

no need to apologize! i'm also pretty down on him. like i said, i hope this is a sign that he's improving and is going to try and make up for the shitty tropes he played into and exploited, but i'm really not holding my breath

i hope people don't forget it

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

The only slurs I've been called irl: trap and f slur. Pisses me off to no end when cissies act like it's ok

[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago

samesies! I hate when people try to rehabilitate these like the cissies aren't actively using them as slurs.