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I hope its ok for me to make this post. F1NN5TER is coming out as genderfluid. He still prefers He/him pronouns but is ok with any pronouns. Good for him. He is also coming out as bisexual.

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[–] makotech222@hexbear.net 91 points 7 months ago (2 children)
[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 33 points 7 months ago

HER PRONOUNS ARE HE HIM

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 32 points 7 months ago
[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 67 points 7 months ago (9 children)

If enough people reply to this post, I'll start HRT as a joke! 😜

Edit: okay, okay everyone, I didn't expect this to blow up! I didn't really want to do it, but I'm a man of my word 😂

[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 46 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 33 points 7 months ago

Haha, taking HRT to prank the Libs, still not trans tho...

[–] SerLava@hexbear.net 24 points 7 months ago

not for long you arent

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[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 65 points 7 months ago (3 children)

i'm still bitter about the whole 'playing into trap jokes' thing he was doing for a while but i hope she's doing well, i wish em luck and hope ze's grown

[–] WitchHazel@lemmygrad.ml 35 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Idk

I'm pretty much completely unwilling to forgive him for the way that affected me materially, meaning I legitimately had people comparing me directly to him because of his ambiguity and flippancy with joking about things that I torture myself over, like getting bottom surgery.

He hasn't done anything positive for me, and I can only say that he possibly helped the community by being visible, but I would be lying to you if I said I really believed that. He can do better, and I hope this is the start of him trying, because as it stands I've only been hurt by the things he's produced.

Good to see you again, Cromalin. Sorry that it's always me with the depressing takes.

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 25 points 7 months ago

no need to apologize! i'm also pretty down on him. like i said, i hope this is a sign that he's improving and is going to try and make up for the shitty tropes he played into and exploited, but i'm really not holding my breath

i hope people don't forget it

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

The only slurs I've been called irl: trap and f slur. Pisses me off to no end when cissies act like it's ok

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 59 points 7 months ago

As a transfem enby on HRT that goes by any and all pronouns, I'm in love with how represented this actually makes me feel. Knowing how big of a streamer F1NN is as he makes this statement really makes me feel much less invisible, and holy shit, especially as of late (CW: Transphobia, More Specifically Enbyphobia), it's been seeming like I needed this, and I definitely see that I did.

[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 52 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Not familiar with him, but congrats! trans-hatch bridget-vibe

[–] SerLava@hexbear.net 62 points 7 months ago (2 children)

He's a fairly well known streamer, famous for being good at making himself look very feminine, but only as a joke!!!!!!!!

[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 36 points 7 months ago (1 children)

girl month has gone way farther than anyone imagined

[–] whoops@hexbear.net 45 points 7 months ago (1 children)

He's a minecraft streamer who got bimbofied by his chat

[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 38 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Finnster didn't try very hard at all to resist them lol

[–] whoops@hexbear.net 38 points 7 months ago

Oh no please don't pay me to put on a sexy little maid outfit, I would hate that

[–] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 47 points 7 months ago

As I once said 'I'm not saying he's trans, or egg, or whatever. All I'm saying is that if I left a lil' blue pill sitting on his nightstand, I'm not confident it would be there in the morning'.

[–] TGhost@lemmy.ml 45 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Discovering him, Its normal to be jealous ofc, yeahhh ?

[–] whoops@hexbear.net 30 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I do not like Twitch streamers but I have seen 100s of hours of F1nn videos. I was obsessed enough that I probably can't be cis and straight. Not sure if I want to be him or do him or something else.

[–] AutomatedPossum@hexbear.net 29 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Not sure if I want to be him or do him

The answer to that kind of question is usually "both"

[–] whoops@hexbear.net 19 points 7 months ago (6 children)

Maybe, but I realized a while ago that I would never transition or risk dating a guy, so there's no point even thinking about it. If I introspected and it turned out I was trans, I'd just be sadder

[–] Raebxeh@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago

I feel this. Gender introspection usually involves digging up a lot repressed pain. It’s not something that is universally positive for all people at all points in their life. I think if you’re in an otherwise safe position to do the work, it’s almost always positive. But plenty of people have good and enduring reasons for the repression they’ve done. Regardless of what the result of that introspection might be for you, I’m sorry you don’t feel safe enough to really think about it. Shit sucks. I’m still boymoding the vast majority of the time but I do not envy the version of myself that didn’t know.

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[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 44 points 7 months ago

dudes so good at gender that judith butler should gift him a medal

[–] Gay_Tomato@hexbear.net 43 points 7 months ago (2 children)

The pipeline,

The pipeline is real!!! chopper-cry

[–] whoops@hexbear.net 40 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It started with a friend dressing him as a girl and now he's had laser sessions and takes spiro "for the stream". Most successful forcefemming

[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 25 points 7 months ago (4 children)

hello, i dont care about Finn, and I obviously don't know about their situation, but anyone considering hrt please talk to a doctor. Taking testosterone suppressants like Spiro without taking estrogen to supplement can be pretty bad for your physical and mental health.

[–] alexandra_kollontai@hexbear.net 28 points 7 months ago (2 children)

but anyone considering hrt please talk to a doctor.

Doctors don't know shit. I know more about HRT than any doctor I've ever met.

Do your own research, figure out the medicine that works best for you, and take it as safely as you can.

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 39 points 7 months ago

we have all the best genderfluids, don't we folks? transshork-happy

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 39 points 7 months ago

Shocked, shocked I say

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 35 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Not that surprising at this point. Some crossdressers treat HRT like a steroid to achieve even greater femininity. At that point you’re bound to be some form of gender non-conforming.

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[–] pooh@hexbear.net 31 points 7 months ago

He’s so pretty crush

[–] SerLava@hexbear.net 30 points 7 months ago
[–] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 30 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Who could have seen this coming!!!

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[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 26 points 7 months ago

I'm happy for him figuring out his identity. I'm glad the majority of her fanbase let them take their time and choose what gender suited him best.

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 26 points 7 months ago

Very cute vid

[–] artificialset@hexbear.net 18 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

hell yeah, happy for him cat-trans

[–] alexandra_kollontai@hexbear.net 18 points 7 months ago
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