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[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 10 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Why did I waste years of my life as an egg?

I know you all knew! cri

[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

We all gotta figure it out for ourselves. Our egg cracks when it’s ready.

[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago

Coulda at least sprinkled some E into my food...

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You spent that time working up to figuring it out right?

[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 9 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Hm, not really. I spent a long time in denial. I actually started actively avoiding trans content creators and trans spaces online because I knew if I spent any amount of time in them, I'd crack. That's when I actually knew. Didn't stop me from avoiding them, though.

But the posters here are too powerful and pulled me in.

I'm actually okay, though. I'm just being dramatic. The last few weeks have been kind of an emotional rollercoaster for me.

Happy to be here now bridget-disco

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Okay that is kind of rough, my condolences :/

Glad you're actually okay though, and happy you're here as well ✨ I dig the trans mega myself. I missed having a trans community and this place is goated bridget-yoyo-walk

[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 6 points 10 months ago

The vibes are positively on point lea-smug

Never in my life have I logged on to the internet just to chat with people until here.

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Holy shit are you me? I stopped watching creators when they transitioned, I avoided trans creators when they popped up, I actively avoided this space, even the word "trans" would make me feel certain ways. I would cringe and shy away from stories and articles involving trans people. But at the same time I was completely supportive of trans people and trans rights. It was a bizarre last two-three years of my life.

It's like I knew if I engaged with it, my egg would crack. And yeah, it was this com that finally shattered it. Silver lining is that now I have a backlog of content to catch up, a whole new kind of content to enjoy, and a great community to talk to.

Anyway, I know exactly how you feel. cat-trans

[–] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Holy shit are you me?

Haha, I find it so funny how often we say this to one another. It's really good to be able to talk with everyone here about it.

I'm glad I'm not alone. I remember not so long ago you coming out and showing off your avi, and you were so happy.

Kind of weird to be on the other side now trans-hatch

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

It is truly bizarre how many times everyones experiences overlap on here. I definitely love having this space to post about it.

I remember not so long ago you coming out

It's only been three months and it already feels like a lifetime ago. It really does feel like a past life or something. I really am so much happier now though.

Kinda weird to be on the other side now

One of us! One of us! cat-trans

[–] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Holy shit are you me?!?? I did the exact same thing

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

It's insane that I'm not the only one that did that. My subconscious knew long before I was willing to admit it.