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[–] Bat@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I've got no money no insurance FFS is years away

Started mid twenties and it's been a little over 2 years now

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Oh yeah, bangs are also a trans cheat code (just like any belted jacket or belted dress/top). They're annoying to maintain but... they can make your face look femme!

2 years is when you should start noticing changes for sure, might just be taking longer. Make sure you're at a healthy weight - I know a lot of rail thin trans girls that get upset they aren't seeing fat redistribution but, cmon girlies, you need the fat from somewhere for it to redistribute lmao. You could try weight cycling gain 10 to 15 pounds for a bit, go back down, gain again etc the E will do its work at putting it into the right place. If you have pics of yourself for your own personal timeline from 2 years ago you might be surprised how much you've changed, it's harder to notice when you're living it day by day. I didn't notice my lips had fucking changed shaped and became fuller for example, that's pretty subtle.

I hope you get FFS sooner :( I dunno, maybe one of those random great aunt inheritance where you get a cool $60K for no reason?? I just hope you do. Face dysphoria sucks.

[–] Bat@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

My hair is the one good thing I've got going for me and is the only reason that I pass once in a blue moon (that is until they hear me speak or observe my mannerisms for too long)

I tried gaining weight and it just went to my gut and nowhere else. I took a picture of myself day 1 on HRT and I look at it every now again and cry, it looks just how I look now just disheveled

All my family hates me for being a removed so there's no way I'll ever get any inheritance

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Oh you beautiful creature, wish I could actually hug you. Such pure trans femme sadness, breaks my heart. meow-hug

[–] Bat@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I hate people touching my body so that'd make me feel worse but thank you for the sentiment