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[โ€“] crosswind@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's crazy how variable pronoun usage of any kind is once you start paying attention to it. Like, you'd think a fairly consistent percentage of the words of any conversation would be pronouns, but a lot of the time it's either a drought or a downpour.

Anyway for like a month my friends have just naturally not used my pronouns, and my family has been misgendering me like crazy, and I am gritting my teeth waiting for it to start swinging the other way.

[โ€“] bleepbloopbop@hexbear.net 2 points 5 months ago

you're allowed to ask your friends to use them more! even if its uncomfortable to ask, it might be a good reminder that they do respect you/nice validation