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This entire play of thoughts hinges on the idea of taking out the absolute worst part of living stealth, the fear of being found out. Be careful with that kind of impossible hypotheticals, they will end up harming you.
Being trans already fills me with so much fear what's one more fear on top of it all
These impossoble hypotheticals trap you in that fear. You focus on a goal that is irreal, They cannot exist and have never even been a possibility.
By focussing on these you, almost necessarily look away from actual real happiness. It prevents you from actually being happy about being trans, being proud abd upright. It is playing the wrong game. You are submitting to cisnormativity.
Slightly related. I once made some post about that gender button question(press it and you will always have been a cis person of your preferred gender), and how it's premise is stupid.
Pressing the button would, if it were real, be more akin to a kind of suicide, than to a solution tjat would help me, the person who is asked that question.
You are missing the foresst for the trees, make your happiness on your own term, instead of anyone elses. This is, of course, far easier said than done, and something I struggle with myself. We live in a dociety, and safety as well as economic concerns will always be a concern.
I want to comment in support of this reply, it is so good โค
Thanks, I thought that it might have been too much, and almost deleted it.