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You really don't. Or you can define for yourself what that label means. That's the entire point of queer people using terms to self describe, it's a means to take control over our lifes and how they should be understood. When you feel that trans woman is a useful term for you, but not in the established way, you can redefine it. When you realize that it does not help you understand your needs and wishes, when it's just a tag they put on you to classify and catalog a specimen, when it does not resonate with you, you do not need that label. It's not a prerequisite for using she / her pronouns and a woman's first name, it's not a prerequisite for wearing a dress, it's not a prerequisite for wanting HRT and laser hair removal and bottom surgery. You're entitled to all of that stuff if that's what you need, and if you need that is something only you can decide correctly.
Forgive my autism for causing me to view labels as static and monolithic :) I definitely do not resonate that much with "woman", it's fine and I'm happy enough if that's what someone called me, but does it fit my noodly gremlin ass? Idk, I might search out a new label or I might just leave it. Autistic Asexual Lesbian, gender: Mysterious & Vague!!!
As I have said before I think my kid-brain just conflated them because I didn't wanna be a man, so I must be woman! I had no idea there were more than two genders. Looking at it now, I feel no distress having taken hormones for a decade and been fulltime presenting as me just as long while not identifying with "woman". I feel weirdly relaxed without it, which is cool. A decade later and I am still learning about me ✨