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if not for bear website I just wouldnt have a social life at all (hexbear.net)

submitted 3 months ago by ashinadash@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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this and more vicious self-owns, only in this incredible grass-toucher post (again)

I used to have irl friends but they all turned out to be horrible people or libs or whatever, I used to have leddit but leddit is fucking poisonous, I used to have discord servers and shit but I tend to pass into and out of discord groups with worrying ease, also I cant stop saying "another kkkracka down" at grampa's funeral

now I have bear website and it's the place I want to talk, what the fuck else even is there? where else would even tolerate me? any attempt to reach out and join communities or groups anywhere would probably result in critical psychic damage, also I still will not go into the queer center in town, what the fuck

bear website is the only spot where talking to people has a decent chance of not being a painful affair

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[–] StalinStan@hexbear.net 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It is weird but I feel like I had had the most luck of late finding weird nerds to do nerd stuff with on fetlife. Not for everyone, and actually not as great for dating. Howver they are people that are 1. Used to going to events 2. Nerdy and weird. So in terms of finding a social group it is hard to get both in other places. Like 90% of everyone there woudl be down to play board games if you asked. Failing that the furry community probably has a something close enough you can check out. They are usually good nerds to visit. Then larp groups. Then finally board game shops / hobby shops. Doping on how populous your area is you can have more or less luck. In some places there are juggalos which we have come to learn are officially comrades in good standing.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I am married =) I can confirm that I have met very cool kink people fwiw so you're probably right

Also yeah Idk if furries are around here tbh. What if I just hang out in c/furry a lot, huh??

[–] StalinStan@hexbear.net 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

That is chill. Doesn't work towards the goal getting out and doing the real work of building connections though.

Maybe kinky people are easier to organize because a secton of them are very good at following orders

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago

lmao