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[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

It is, the amount of shitty comments I got was crushing,

More angry venting sorry..

spoilerI got a laser appointment all set up and go to get it done and they'd have you on the table, then just say nah we aren't going to do it you haven't got the prescription yet.. I say well I don't because your systems slow and I've being doing diy for 2 fucking years already look at me.. (gave them the name of the meds and dosage) "oh those are just sugar pills you get online" was the response, I get escorted off the table and sent away.. a week later I get a letter to say I'm off getting any laser done

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Don't be sorry, I like reading angry venting meow-hug

spoilerThat is so sad sadness I can't believe they would treat you that way. And you can totally get laser without hrt?? Right??

I hope you're in a better situation, care wise, now though.

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

That's just a bit of what I put up with, then all the shit because I wanted bottom surgery..

spoilerI don't even want to get into some of that.. that's after trying to get anything rearranged which they dragged their ass and it did nothing, but I had enough and dropped out.

I can get laser, not that I absolutely need it (I can go 3 days before it's noticeable anyhow) but I got totally demoralised by the whole process

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

spoilerThat's very fair meow-hug It is very frustrating to hear they would continue to drop the ball with bottom surgery. That just feels... so important.

yea I know I would be.

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago

I lost all faith in them and how I was handled, I can't recommend it.. I just got bad rng. Just spent the last few years wondering what to do next honestly..