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this post was submitted on 15 Jul 2024
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FUCKING CIS PEOPLE
This is what I hate most passionately: these type of people are "grieving" their own internal fucking perception of you, what they apparently liked more than the actual you now. Someday I will declare cis people expressing these kind of thoughts to be a crime. They need to get over themselves and support YOU if they care so goddamn much.
She should probably get over it at least, sadly/thankfully it's not the worst reaction so I'm hoping it goes well with your mother.
Thanks. I needed to hear this. To be honest I find the whole notion really insulting and belittling. I'm alive and thriving. I'm present and happy. Instead of being excited to meet the real me, they're crying about who I used to be. They don't trust me or believe me when I say that version was actually factually killing me. They don't trust me that the real me is the one worth knowing. And I just have to sit here and listen to it.