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this post was submitted on 15 Jul 2024
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dysphoria/envy?
I just wish I could hurry up and be transitioned. Look the way I want, be in a lesbian relationship, all that. Getting there is so hard/going to keep being hard.therapyposting
I'm with you. I'm not happy about getting my face lasered for the next 10 months. Taking forever.BUT anxiety only exists in the future. The more you think about the future, the more anxiety you're going to have.
Just focus on what you're doing now, and you'll feel a lot better.
Back when I started IPL on my legs, I was like "7 weeks? That's gonna take forever!" But I kinda just did it, and now I'm here with semi hairless legs. Seems like no time passes at all
coming out, fear
I'm not doing anything right now. I want to come out and start hrt soon. But that has me feeling really anxious too, my family won't understand. How transphobic are they going to be.And obviously with hrt there'll be a point where I can't pass either way and that's scary.
Thank you for the response though, it helps. I'm just still scared >.<
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Does HRT require you to come out to your family or can you hide it?You can be on HRT for a long time without people noticing.
If you really think that your family is going to be bad about it, you should create an escape plan first and foremost. That's actually probably more important than starting HRT.
Or, if you want something less stressful, you could always start voice training or practicing mannerisms and body language and stuff~
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Right now it definitely would.I don't know how bad they'll be. I don't think they'd kick me out, but they do have brainworms. I do need a plan. I need an actual job. Good fucking luck with that though. (see the anxiety)
Yea, I plan on voice training soon. Once I start feeling better I think. Right now I'm just too in the dumps to listen to my voice.
Yeah, I think it's not very romantic, but a job and apartment are your first priority
Thank you for the reminder. I have made a lot of progress in that area. I had been given a lot of internalized hatred.
I am trying
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