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Quick tip for those of you on the dating apps (hexbear.net)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net
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[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Genuine queation: Why do people say "I will ruin your life"? When their profile says that I pass on them because I got enough shit going on. I'm not dating to find someone who wants to be disastrously mean to me.

[–] spacecadet@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I believe the implication is great sex

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

I am so confused. Great sex adds joy to my life, it doesn't ruin it.

[–] RyanGosling@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Because mental instability is ebic and sexy :DD

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Got so much trauma from abusive relationships that says otherwise </3