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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

meow-hug

Give yourself a hug from me, this one internet stranger. I believe things will get better for you.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I understand, I can never believe it for myself, but I can believe it for other people. And then I remember that there is no fundamental difference between me and other people, and maybe the things I believe for other people can apply to myself too.

idk if that's helpful. But I hope that you're able to get some good sleep, maybe drink some water or get a snack. I'm sorry, I wish things were easier.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I understand the feeling kind of.
I would always see people on Twitter or Reddit and trans-timelines and stuff and it just felt like the things possible for other people just weren’t for me.
It lead to a lot of bitterness and resentment…still kinda does.

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

mental health discussionI'm going through this right now too — I have really bad mental health and I see people with similar issues as mine (ADHD, OCD, etc etc) but they're still succeeding in life while I'm not, and I feel bitterness and shame over that. I also feel a sense of jealousy when I see people who got on HRT really quickly, when it's been almost two years since I decided I wanted HRT and I still am not on it.

So yeah, shit is tough.