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That's nice but I'm kind of having an identity crisis right now so I'd like a frame of reference
Thank you, but I'm not concerned about validity as I agree that there's nothing wrong with shifting self-perception of gender. I'm specifically concerned with it manifesting as a complete disconnect rather than a transition.
I just want to know if it's a genderfluid thing or something more complicated.
I don't think this something someone else is gonna be able to tell you. Talking about it is gonna help you figure it out for yourself though
Okay I'll think about it more
Nonono I'm a trans woman. I feel disconnected from the few years in college where I had a different gender identity.
It could be you tried it for awhile and just didn't like it.
Identity is generally very fluid at that age. Gender or otherwise. People try new things and some stuff works and some stuff doesn't. That really goes for any age but especially when we are younger.
If you have a history of splitting or black and white thinking, it's possible that's what is happening. But when I split I tend to do it on a lot of things, not just one aspect of my life.
Black and white thinking, sure probably. Idk what splitting is.
Feelings are transient, do whatever feels right in a given time. Maybe a label would help you, idk.