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Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades cat-trans

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

spoilersusie-laugh ok thank u glad to hear, like sincerely but also lmao. "She likes reading my gay sex stuff, chat!!" soypoint-2

It is unusual what I'm going through, basically for my entire life before the last few months I was utterly disconnected and had 0 feelings during sex, due to a mix of trauma baggage, a lil gender incongruity and honestly cyproterone-acetate was crushing out my libido. The gears are greased a lot more easily when 25mg or 50mg of cypro isn't destroying any desire you might have with depressive effects. So I'm inhabiting a new space, in terms of personal perception, and working out the metaphorical kinks in it. And yes thank u โœจ

Emotional regulation is a fuckin trick, can you imagine not losing your shit every time you feel strongly? yea

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

spoilercheems I could not figure out how to phrase that so sometimes you get what you get.

No I cannot. And apparently E makes emotions stronger? Lord have mercy.

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

spoilerI thought it was funny idgaf cat-trans

Yeah it can be pretty tumultuous with the tism, I found I've also acquired better emotional control generally since estrogen though. Just... not for trauma bocchi-head-shake

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I forget that autism can effect emotional regulation. I always just think of it as your stereotypical screaming meltdown (which I don't really do). I should look into that more.

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago

Yeah you should!!! Autism is funny and also unfunny sometimes!!