Are wide hips a meme? Is a wide pelvis as a feminine thing overemphasised and untrue?
this post was submitted on 01 Jul 2024
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nah I think it's totally a thing. generally wider shoulders to hip ratio is more attractive as a man to women and vice versa
I think I read a study while I was cis and researching weird male/female body shit cause I unknowingly had dysphoria
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I know I keep posting but it can make up for my lackluster prescence last week. I just got a new epilator in, and this time I payed a bit more for a wet/dry one. This one also swivels and sounds much less threatening. I tested it on a leg I had epi'd before, and it doesn't hurt nearly as much, meaning I now just have to get over the initial hurdle of initially removing the hair without impulsively returning the epilator (which I did last time).
It's the Braun Silk Epil 9, almost forgot to mention. Cost me a bit but I feel like it will be better than constantly going through disposable razor blades and/or seeking lazer (not covered by my insurance π)
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1000 comments surpassed while I was busy dying over and over in Rain World 
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Speaking of hair what are ya'll doing with yours?
I'm rocking a short shag.
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dating, negativity, sadposting
I'm just so sad right now. I'm listening to someone talking about their experience dating 30+ and I can't guys. A lot of people have already found someone at my age, and I have no path towards meeting people. And I'm not who I want to be yet. So what do I do? I could try and find someone now (really in the next few years) but are they going to want to stay with me while I transition/get more femme? What are the odds I find someone who's bi, and likes me both ways. Doesn't seem very fucking likely. Or I wait even fucking longer, with more and more people getting matched and the ever shrinking pool of people who would date me, and I would also want to date. Then just enter the dating pool completely fresh, trying to date another woman as someone who has lived as a guy her whole life. That joke about lesbians moving things along really fast makes me nervous too, I don't want to rush right in to something and I worry that will be seen as me being noncommittal/flaky/like I don't really like her.
How do I even meet people? I'm so awkward and hate the idea of just approaching someone.
NEGATIVITY ABOUT BEING TRANS (WORSE THEN NORMAL), genitals
Let's be real, I'm not dateable now and even after I transition (if I do) I won't really be. Why would someone want to date this huge gross person with all this baggage and straight guy issues when you could just as easily date any of the other wonderful women. Some stuff I don't even want to change. I don't want bottom surgery. Why would you date a woman with a penis if you could find one without? Why would someone date this ugly, brainwormed pretender instead of someone else. They wouldn't.
And I haven't even touched on my issues surrounding sex but its bad. I'm fucked.
doomer/si thoughts
I can't live the next fucking 50 years of my life alone. I can't. I'll fucking kill myself. I am so deeply lonely and I can't stay like this. I feel like all of my issues have condemned me to this. What a fucking hallow and pathetic life. Is this all there is?
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can I eschew the battery and start my car with a crank arm yes/no
New and sudden observation!! If you are Estrogenised or otherwise have dummy thicc thighs, if you bring your legs up close to your body, a bunch of thigh squish will form on the outer thigh near the hips, which is now my new favourite thing to squeeze 
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I'm tired of reading queer manga. I want to read Vagabond.
I want to roam the countryside with a sword.
I will never not want that.
I will not apologize.
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I do wish sf6 had a character like 
considering i find that game much more fun than strive.
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Aeons ago this dude I went to highschool with transitioned (like, in highschool) and for years now I've been like "goddamn that was the ballsiest dude I ever met." I managed to meet up with him for the first time since then and it went well! Hes still a cool dude, he told me my voice was nice and he was very suprised to find our my tits are not augmented in any way. So that was quite poggersome indeed.
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i went to a bar last night and saw a pride flag with a miller lite can on it. i think i turned into the joker for half an hour
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