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site's back, time to party 
hello western-centric-website trans besties. if your transmasc friend sends you t4t reels on insta does that mean anything. now what happens when that is compounded with cultural issues like strict parents, the hijab, and a lack of common meeting spots which aren't being monitored for straightness. please speculate. thank you
I wonder what my life would have been like if I actually worked up the courage to come out to that one girl I was friends with in high school? 
She already knew I was kind of a gay little f@g, why didnβt I just bite the bullet?
sadposting
fuuuuuuuck iβm listening to a trans youtuber describe how hrt helped her become mentally stable and saved my life and i almost want to cry. i need hrt badly holy shit itβs been four years since realizing i was trans and those four years have been nothing but a downward spiral for me mental-health wise. i donβt have a lot of angst around being trans, but my brain chemistry is so off. itβs always been off but these days itβs off to the point of complete dysfunctionality. if hrt can turn that around even a little bit i donβt even know what iβll do.
Almost had a panic attack when I woke up because my gf didnβt respond to my goodnight dm or text she got back from work 
i need to do college work but im just soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo eepy
ITS DUE TONIGHT?????????????
but im eepy
ITS DUE
TONIGHT
DO IT YOU FUCKING LESBIAN
no uwu time to play terrible hoi4 mods for the next 8 hours
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Just thinking about how much sooner my egg would have cracked if I had ever vocalized my gender envy ("damn I wish I was her") to the right people. I never did because I thought that was part of finding someone attractive and was/would be seen as the same as me (a straight guy at this point) saying "damn she's hot" which would be objectifying and rude.
you may be trapped in the belly of the horrible machine while the machine is bleeding to death, but i'm better
I am so fucking happy I am trans! I won't get my high school, or even college years back but by the time I'm 30? I'm going to effing slay. All those late nights I stayed up wishing I could be a girl? A happy, cute, queen? That's going to be me fuckers. I'm going to go to a big fucking party, or rave, or whatever and dance my god damn heart out. I'm going to hang out with my girlies, and get girldrunk, and have cute girlrelationships, and I'm going to BE FUCKING ECSTATIC! I'm going to love my body, I'm going to love myself, and I'm going to love being who I am. Who I have wanted to be for years. I will break out of this mold and be free!
dysphoria stuff
I'm sad that I lost touch with people I knew, but part of me feels like it was necessary to even reach a point to consider that I'm trans.
In school, I had a support system. I had great friends, and people that I probably kinda took for granted.
But I thought I was straight, I thought I was cis. I was in a costume, and I played the part so well that nobody can look past the mask anymore. They're not thinking about me, they're remembering him. It's tough.
It feels like (anecdote time) just over the last five or so years, "they" as a neutral singular pronoun has gone from a fringe concept for assholes to bitch about grammarwise (and they sometimes still do) to a very commonplace word. I hear it in sloptube videos and stuff, even goofy gamer ones. Truly a banger 
Hi gay friends in my computer 
I'm glad we're back. It was a long day with no bear site. I was like 4.5 days late with my last E shot and I feel it. Still have changed very little about my presentation but I did wear a flower crown to the bar last night which was fun.
less fun bits
I don't know how to adapt my presentation when I can barely hold my current (kinda shoddy) look together most days, I've got the worst dandruff you've ever seen, and I'm literally too large for like 95% of mens clothing let alone women's. It also doesn't help that I'm really not convinced I want to be a woman, only not a man, and that I've got some serious self-hatred about my body/weight. All the cool or attractive people I see I just think that I'm nothing like them and never will be.
i started playing stardew valley again recently and i've been WAY more into it than i ever have before. idk if it's just the updates or maybe the hormones are making me more into it, lol
The headpet thing is actually not a meme. I am desperate for head attention. Touch my hair, give me pets, rub my scalp, I will become putty 
It feels so good. I can be kept immobilised and making dumb gay noises for hours at a time. Getting headpets as the little spoon from my wife 
Went to a party for the first time as myself. Met a couple of other trans women and felt shy talking to them and really curious as both are on estrogen and I haven't started yet.
I did get a chance to break the ice with the tall, beautiful blonde, who was a great dancer! Told her this was my first party as myself. She gave me a big hug and said it only gets better from here!
Spent most of the morning trying to Facebook stalk her but didn't have any luck. Maybe she'll find this here and send me a DM :)
idk if this is me being delusional but i feel like I'd look more feminine with a buzz cut
IDK if I need to cw this but anyway mental health anxiety stuffs
I had a panic attack out of nowhere yesterday. I got home after work, took a shower, changed into a cute skirt and tee. When I got done getting dressed, I realized I had gotten a package delivered and it was on the porch. And chat, I just could not open the door and go get it. I stood there pissed at myself for at least 5 mins before I gave up and decided to pretend I didn't see it so my husband would get it when he got home.
I'm already out to most of my neighbors, or at the very least most have seen me girling up the place in the last few weeks. I haven't had anxiety like that in a few months. I honestly have no idea where it came from but it sucked. 
Hey comrades,
Fully acknowledging the canvas event is silly, I've made a template for a hexbear logo on a trans flag, I've made this three times and finally gave up on the second canvas because of dorks destroying it for no reason. I'm trying to write HEXBEAR last because that seems to be the sticking point for people (lol)
direct link to template https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/96b43440-beb7-4f40-b160-4a58e1ef1196.png
I'll workout a good way to draw the hexbear logo when the canvas expands
^ a slightly more ambitious one with a heart going into the kiwi (not sure how they'll take that, I'll try contact them, maybe) (this is the most up to date)
ps
Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have nipples that aren't hard 24/7
My bralettes finally came in today and this time they ACTUALLY FIT! 
. Also got a swim-shirt but I haven't been waiting almost a month to get that.
I havenβt noticed really what pronouns my parents have been using at all since I came out, they honestly might not have used any very much at all in that time tbh.
But they definitely both just used βhimβ right now 
I wanna buy like 100 grams of raws and hand out estrogen vials like a fairy godmother.
Can we get an emoji that's the opposite of 
that says "I love over thinking"?
Feel like it would get a lot of mileage
If so, who would it be? I dunno I don't watch amnime
The news nerds are colluding with the admins to suppress all the incredibly trans posting 
What can I do if I find I'm sweating 24/7, like even in the dead of winter? Idk if this is hormone related but holy shit I am almost as big and wet as the guy who just had an attempted assassination on him.
Think I'd look really cute with bangs :3 Might be a bit too high maintenance for me though
dysphoria, hygiene, depression, complaining about transphobia and christianity (its not actually that long of a post I swear)
This... disconnect and dysphoria is really hitting me hard. I really wanted to take a shower tonight but I just can't. I can't look at myself. This feels a lot like when I had depression... but now there's a concrete cause. BUT THAT CONCRETE CAUSE IS APPARENTLY "POLITICAL" AND "COMPLICATED" SO FUCK ME AM I RIGHT? BETTER MAKE MORE HATE PROPAGANDA (WHICH ALL THESE FUCKS EAT UP LIKE CANDY). JUST DEMONIZE ME FOR HAVING A BIG FUCKING PROBLEM. FUCK "christian values" BULLSHIT TOO. CHRISTIANITY CAN EAT MY ENTIRE ASS.
edit: just to clarify the big fucking problem is dysphoria
I know I just made a shaving euphoria post but this is actually amazing. My skin is so smooth, so clean.
Started working on voice training day before yesterday. It's nice to have something to work on while I wait to see the clinic at the end of the month for HRT. Meeting a trans friend I recently made for coffee tomorrow. And going to a trans support group the night after. Hopefully that will help with things mentioned below.
dysphoria and coming out
I'm starting to experience pronoun/name euphoria and dysphoria. And I'm having trouble asking people to stop dead naming me. Changed my profile name on facebook to gauge the reaction. But honestly feeling sketch about FB generally and will probably delete the thing.
I also haven't come out to my kid yet. He's 14, and I only see him once a week supervised because of my poor mental health. His mom has him in a conservative school district, and he's already been teased for not having a dad because of me being in his life so little. I'm going to talk to my therapist today about it. And probably our supervisor (who's also a therapist) soon. Then likely have to email my ex-wife and explain the situation to her and see if she wants to try co parenting on this or if she wants to just leave me to it. I'll probably apologize to my ex too, for my end of all the things her and I put each other through. Tell her something like, I really wasn't myself when we were together.
