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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Goofnight trans mega, gonna be a better tomorrow(or today timezone dependent) trans-heart

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (2 children)

lazy bitch still not getting around to getting a therapist, more at 11

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[โ€“] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (25 children)

so i guess i've got androgene insensitivity. v complicated feels about this, but i've got my partner to help me figure things out.

also what de HECC i swear i had no idea Toriyama

spoilerdied
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[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

i think i got the fancy-rona chat

second time, this sucks lea-why

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[โ€“] Bat@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (3 children)

dysphoriagod i'm in such an awful place with my transition right now

i don't look like a woman, but at the same time i don't really look like a man either, i'm stuck in a in-between purgatory that i can't get out of

i'm tired of looking like this, honestly i'd take just looking like a man over this. i just want to blend into the background instead of everyone staring at me with disgust

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[โ€“] Aru@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 5 months ago

facial hairI finally shaved, I didn't realize how big my facial hair made my face, my head literally looks like it shrank in size

[โ€“] GunslingerSky@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago

Since I've started hrt I have become the eepy trans girl meme. Takes me an extra to get out of bed in the morning now

[โ€“] Mousy@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

rate your music dot com is ip blocking me for using a vpn again! meow-cactus

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Iโ€™m just standing around outside the store like a weirdo

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[โ€“] rainn@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (14 children)

Did anyone pick a new name that's not English? How did you go about it? Don't want to commit cultural appropriation or get a name from a culture I have no clue about, and English names sound bad in other languages most of the time in my experience

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (18 children)

coming out/being in the closet, shameBeing in the closet is eating me alive. Was on a vc with friends and just felt terrible the whole time. Like there was a dirty secret I couldn't share. Anytime I'm doing stuff with my family I can't stop thinking about it. What am I going to do chat. And for some reason, all this comes with a (un)healthy helping of doubt. Am I trans, or have I talked myself into it somehow. I don't think I have but the feelings/fears are still there.

I think I'm going to finally change my pronouns to they/them on discord though. Still not what I want but a lot less drastic then she/her, yaknow?

Anyway I'm actually doing okay tonight, I know this was kind of a bummer post but I feel fine. Well maybe fine is a stretch. Numb would be more accurate, but numb is okay comfy Hope you're all having a good night.

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[โ€“] terrytec@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (5 children)

Maybe I'm a bit late to party on this one but I just want to say thank you to the comrade(s) who suggested I Saw the TV Glow.

I am not generally into movies and went in mostly blind and I have never been so affected by a piece of art.

It made me realize I need to stop ignoring what I've known now for 3 years cat-trans

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (61 children)

I think the cashier at the grocery store clocked me today, but like in a nice way? She was smiling at me a lot and was just super friendly.

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

my face looks slightly different now but somehow it feels like the facial fat redistribution has made my jawline more pronounced? Idk where the estrogen has us planned going but I'm excited to see. Still weird seeing my jawline this pronounced, and it doesn't feel femme at all :(

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[โ€“] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Hello everyone!!! ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹. I hope all of you are having a great day and will have a great week ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ. Trans rights!!! โœŠโœŠโœŠ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธโœŠโœŠโœŠ

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[โ€“] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago

Love seeing all the new comrades joining the mega. Welcome! bridget-pride

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago

I have found more of my old (rubber band) bracelet stuff! The only colors I have a significant amount of is purple, blue and clear though (literally so close why not pink kitty-cri) but I think I'm going to make a purple one and save the blue for a flag-trans-pride one, once I get my hands on some pink bands.

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (7 children)

Reading Whipping Girl to become really annoying because Imogen Binnie told me its fans online are really annoying. Reading Whipping Girl to find out what the screechers on Tumblr were talking about. Reading Whipping Girl to see basically the genesis point of trans womens' gender theory. Reading Whipping Girl for the bit.

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (7 children)

it's so joever i'll never look like a girl. i still don't look like favorite anime girl with yoga ball sized tits even after a whole 10 WEEKS on hrt it's JOEVER

spoiler/s for the six people who really need it

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[โ€“] kristina@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (4 children)
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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Transgender chat, I cannot eep. Fucking weed whacker noise woke me up today. When can I wake up normally without being disturbed? Acab includes checks notes landscapers...

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (5 children)

doomer i'm just so goddamn tired of spending my life fighting for a shred of dignity and respect. there's nothing wrong with being an autistic trans woman, to be one in a society that actively hates you at every turn is just... awful in a way i can't even truly fathom

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[โ€“] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

My mother is finally gendering me correctly, she has been really supportive(even if she is really gnc, so she doesn't really get feminity I think), but that was something she had her problems with

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