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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'm so good at being queer that my supervisor starting using they for me despite me boymoding at work ~~It's probably actually the usual degendering transphobia since I said he/she... But hey it ain't he this time at least~~

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (5 children)

it's not spironolactone, MOM, it's a Piss Speedrun:tm:

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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Feeling very eepy after all the excitement from today. G'nite silly little transes in my phone, I love you all~

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[โ€“] anonochronomus@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

Oh shit! I have boobs now. I can touch bobs whenever I want! sicko-fem

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

No one on this bus is masking

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (6 children)

I've been in a terrible, angry sour mood for like 2 days I'm OVER IT. I have nothing else to destroy. Go away feelings

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[โ€“] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

My biggest fear: becoming a middle aged man

Music Iโ€™ve been listening to: Deftones, Chevelle (I only know of middle aged men who listen to them)

I think the Chappell Roan Minecraft parodies and Not Like Us mashups put me back in the right demographic, though.

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[โ€“] Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (5 children)

I wonder was the the blahaj drama orchestrated to drive more trans lefties to hexbear and to further boost the traa mega?

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[โ€“] milk_thief@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago

anybody got idea on what the NTs find funny? I work in a job that rewards entertainers and normal jokes like art technicalities or hinting at furry paw kinks dont work with those weirdos. They seem to snort at absurd stuff like the challenges of building McMansion or soda

[โ€“] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (3 children)

My neighbours are nice to me. Was walking the dogs with my wife and one of the friendly people on the corner yelled out "morning girls!". I'm very obviously trans and it's just nice to have this community of people that are all like 20-40 years older than me (aging little burb/village) be so uncaring about it.

Also I'm starting to age and feeling insecure about it instead of silver-foxy. Have I finally accepted myself? :P

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[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (17 children)

my consult is in 69 (nice) days meow-fiesta

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (3 children)

vaguely sadBeing a babytrans is so hard why did no one warn me. I mean I already tried to keep my shell intact but I'd have tried harder.

Being an elder trans better be as good as you all make it out to be meow-knife-trans

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

okay the Minions has kinda saved this opening ceremony for me

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[โ€“] Kiagz@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago

Feeling cute today :3

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (6 children)

Chat I would dox myself in an instant to show you how incredible the results of the "Wide Tooth Comb ft. Oils and Conditioner and Blackjack" routine from wet. I dunno if my hair has ever looked better than this. That was probably the best shower I've ever taken in my life.

Weirdly my hair seems to be drying from the bottom to the top? I just put it in a towel for like 20mins, like usual, Idk why it is doing this.

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[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I slept poorly last night and got up early today. Now I'm so exhausted that even my adderall isn't working like it usually does

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Transgender chat, I cannot eep. Fucking weed whacker noise woke me up today. When can I wake up normally without being disturbed? Acab includes checks notes landscapers...

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (3 children)

went to turn my shower on and the shower head just basically exploded. ugh

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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Hello new thread, how big will you grow this time?~

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

dysphoriaTry not to sad post too much but the happy/sad ratio has been improving a lot.

The disconnect between body and mind is just always there, always reminding me. I feel like I'm looking out at the world as a girl, but it doesn't see me that way. And I understand why.

Just wrapping myself up in a blanket and trying not to look at my body too much.

spoiler genitals Also random erections agony-shivering wtf penis. :::

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[โ€“] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago

Being trans is really nice, I don't get all that anxiety over egg-jokes. So weird.

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (5 children)

doomer i'm just so goddamn tired of spending my life fighting for a shred of dignity and respect. there's nothing wrong with being an autistic trans woman, to be one in a society that actively hates you at every turn is just... awful in a way i can't even truly fathom

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[โ€“] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

We gotta boost these numbers a bit if we wanna be a thousand ahead of news.

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (24 children)

Why the fuck am I being horny about guy leg hair what the fuck is HAPENNING TO ME

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[โ€“] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

compliments reaching dangerous levels of flirtatiousness

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[โ€“] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (8 children)

Ok I'm quitting Spiro. I have to sleep I can't take this anymore. I am so exhausted it's hard to describe. I feel like a zombie. I hope this actually fixes my insomnia because if it doesn't I am a bit at a loss

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[โ€“] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (6 children)

When I looked in the mirror I noticed my hairline masculinizing, I used to look so much more 'rounded'. That was a neat thing. Things otherwise have been going better than they usually do, makes me fear when they'll go wrong.

I am however dreading a therapist appt next week, managed to finally get to see one (I forgot I was on a waiting list for the local community clinic, just got the call the other day), I am worried she'll be nearly traumatically transphobic as my PT was since that's the default out here, everyone is a bigot and that's how it is, though if she's that bad I'll just drive 2hrs away, I didn't want to, but I've replaced a bunch of parts on my ancient car, so it can probably take the stress. At least both places are on a sliding scale, so that's helpful.

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (9 children)

girls only have two moods:

"god my tits are so small and weirdly shaped i need a BA months ago wtf why are they so tiny????"

and

"jesus christ those things in the mirror are massive, look at those tiddies"

and i switch between the two about six times a day

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (5 children)

Had a dream where my hair looked bad and I looked like a boy niko-tear-wipe

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago

OBTAINED: 2x wide toothed comb, (more) jojoba oily curly-specific shampoo, and scrunchies, to go with the hydrating shampoo and towel dry methods. I am so ready to have curly hair all day every day. Let's fucking go anya-heh

[โ€“] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

My mother is finally gendering me correctly, she has been really supportive(even if she is really gnc, so she doesn't really get feminity I think), but that was something she had her problems with

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