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Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades 
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I'm gay. Gay like you wouldn't believe, gay like you haven't seen before, you simply cannot comprehend how gay i am
friday night vibes at the laundromat are quiet and much appreciated to the weekend vibes
Caught myself in the mirror this morning and saw I got some underboob now~
(cw dysphoria)
~~Then caught myself a few hours later and saw I have stubble cuz I shaved poorly this morning~~
(I know I posted these in trachat but I want extra attention now since I can't post my silly paragraphs long posts till after work)
more weird nsfw noodling
Man I shoulda chose a different season to do all of this trauma processing, sexual adventure, cypro dose lowering stuff. Doing anything gaysex related sucks when your bed gets coated in sweat every night, your bodies end up slick from sweat. The heat is goddamn oppressive. Plus it makes my body hurt even more, feels like my joints are deteriorating in real time or something. Weh!
Also unrelated but having your hair so long it goes down your back is so inconvenient for this.
Me spending 5 mins on a doodle: This is amazing I am an artistic genius
Me spending 10 hours on an illustration: This is terrible I am a fraud what am I doing with my life
I'm not giving up nor do I actually think it's bad. It's just that staring at the same work for so long makes me kinda hate it no matter the quality. I probably just need to take more breaks
Gf and I are back to being split up
sex stuff
I want a sexual relationship and she feels pressured if I even bring it up. When she feels pressured, she doesn't communicate and I get frustrated. Yesterday I asked if I should stop bringing it up, she said yes but today she says her motivation for that was to test me.
So it's not just not having sex. It's no room to even talk about it. And she tests me We've been together four years and it feels like she's still playing games rather than communicating.
So, I broke up with her this morning. Because I need space and don't want to be cuddling, hanging out, and getting turned on when that's not what we both want and there's no room for me to talk about it.
Feeling heart broken. My body is going through changes and I hoped to explore that with her. Now I feel like I can't even talk about those changes with her. I think I'm going to hide in my room all day (we have separate bedrooms). Take my shot of E. Play SDV and listen to The Left Hand of Darkness on audio while waiting for this edible to hit me.
Any advice on the gf situation or how to handle the break up with someone who I live with would be helpful. I'm pretty poor and don't have family out here, so need to make the room mate situation work if it can.
Mostly feeling sad as I type this.
Years and years ago before I cracked my egg, I remember thinking if I ever grew boobs spontaneously what I'd do. I figured I'd play with them a bunch. Now I have em and I don't play with em. Guess it's different when they're actually there.
Marched at pride yesterday, met a ton of my trans friends, had a great day in the city and finally we capped it off with a drag show and lipsync battle that gave my gal pal and me the biggest dose of queer joy you can imagine. It was wonderful seeing every single letter in LGBTQIA being represented by such magnificent, radiant people. The straights have no idea what they're missing out on. If you're reading this while closeted, please make it your goal to come out here and join us. You're needed and will be welcomed with open arms and it will be beautiful.
I've gotten a weird case of brainworms where sometimes when I look at pics of someone completely cis I think to myself that she doesn't really pass in this.
Separated from my blΓ₯haj for the next 7 days. That's okay, it's not like I have a deep emotional attachment to it or anything 
I made a list for what I'd want out of a future partner and it's fucking boring π. Independent, supportive, empathetic, and then the lesser ones like: able to get by without smoking weed/drinking everyday, has a relatively normal regular sleep schedule.
I used to be cool. WTF happened, hit my 30s and now my soul wears a business skirt and blazer.
I've been hyperfocusing on art all day again. I thought I'd share what I have so far:
work in progress
Line art:
This will eventually be the first boss of the shump game I'm making. Inspired by the Eucharitid Wasp. I'm slowly piecing together multiple layers so there will be lots of animation in the game. Legs, head, antenna, body, back carapace, wings, and stinger will all be separate objects that animate independently to give it life and to have multiple ways of signalling attacks
Probably would've been quicker and easier just to do pixel art but I always like to do things that hard way
going to become a twitter "transvestigator" but i will just say literally everyone is trans no matter what
Back off I'll take you on - love my trans comrades more than anyone!
Muscles: weakened and shrinking
Body hair: thinning and lightening
Tiddies: growing
Unspeakably horny thoughts: raging
Skin: softened
yep, it's estrogen time
otherkin discourse
Chat, am I old and out of touch? There was a struggle session in a chat I monitor about otherkins after one came in and said they have it worse than 'other trans people do'. I personally think this is probably bait by some reactionary, but lets assume they're earnest. They're not doing hrt, anything with gender, etc. they're basically just saying their presentation (re: wearing furry stuff / doing cosplay) makes them a 'new gender'. Am I wrong in thinking otherkins are just furries and cosplayers that take it way too seriously? Like if they want to do that stuff, sure whatever, but I don't like the conflation with trans issues.
I consider otherkin to be not a trans thing. People often hate on xenogenders (re: being 'new discourse'), I obviously consider xenogenders trans, most seem genderfluid and have a 'switch' due to an outside interaction.
Day 3 of βis this the estrogen working or am I so excited for it to work that Iβm ascribing random things to it?β
CW mildly lewd
I made out with my wife for like an hour straight earlier. It just felt really good and I felt connected to my body in a way that I normally donβt while weβre making out. Weβve never done that for that long before without it turning into sex but I super wanna do it again.
@ashinadash@hexbear.net operation curly hair care is a-go and going swimmingly. Armed with my jojoba oil and wide tooth comb, my hair has never looked and felt better!
we finally did it lmao 
body image navel gazing, cw weight stuff
I was looking in the mirror after showering today and ADMIRING the small tummy I am now having. Thing is earlier in the week, I was pulling up my shirt and going 'uh oh, did my midsection gain too much weight?' No, you fucking rube, you goddamn shit idiot. My midsection actually looks great, the lil tummy rounds me out better than before, when I had a washboard-flat midriff I looked uncomfortably skinny. It's these lapses in judgement & perception that make me worry I'd be susceptible to an eating disorder... not because I do not adore my body, but because my brain tries to bully me about it anyway.
It's useful to have a partner around, you can trust their perception of you and lean on them for a second opinion when your brain is being silly. I recommend it tbh.
bad vibes
Out of left field, a family member sent me a message full of resentment and trans- and queerphobic hatred, insulting my mum as a whore and some other shit. I am doing relatively ok now but depressing that another family member is dead to me now
Just making sure again, but that "coffee will stunt you" shit your parents used to say is fake right, and it's fine to drink a lil stinky hot drink when on hormones?
dresses are cute, but I just don't find a situation to wear them much
Whoops, accidentally napped for 4 hours instead of calling about my student loan that I'm missing the code to activate like I was planning to do today. Guess I'll just do it Friday and hopefully that won't be too late.
I love how long my hair has gotten. It's long enough to completely cover my ears, but not long enough to pull into a ponytail. I love how soft it is and how good it smells after I condition it. 
HAHAHA! YES! MY HAIR IS FINALLY LONG ENOUGH TO BE ABLE TO FIT INTO MY MOUTH! IT GROWS!
Heard back on soy milk. Around two cups of soy a day is fine with my estrogen (about a gallon a week).
And two gallons is not. And since I get a lot of phytoestrogens elsewhere in my diet, I'm switching milks (maybe almond, oat is expensive for some reason). And switching to tea generally, since almond and oat milk in coffee doesn't do it for me.
