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[–] SpookyGenderCommunist@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I've been getting really into cute socks lately. Definitely an underrated way to get some of that sweet sweet gender euphoria, on the down low πŸ‘€

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (13 children)

I love (most of (one is terrrrriiibllee and i want her gone)) my housemates Care-Comrade Yes theyre LIBs but they do genuinely care about others and want to make life better for everyone. Were open with each other and have become good friends gustavo-brick-homies

I just keep being the voice of " Kamala and Walz are still politicians, they dont care about the underclasses. Their policies have been shitty in these ways [enumeration]". And try to frame things in a way theyll understand. Theyre not can-excuse-1 can-excuse-2 which is more than I can say for a lot of other self proclaimed leftists ive talked with.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (4 children)

venting about some unexpected ptsd stuff (surgery regret)I haven't gotten blood work since I was in the hospital almost 2 years ago. there are a lot of things I was aware of having trouble with after everything happened, but I haven't been to a big medical facility or had blood work since then. I figured I preferred not to going to a facility because it's annoying and outright didn't get blood work because it's not my favourite thing to do

in reality, that sinking feeling in my stomach happened as soon as I got the facility and I found myself in a fog as I struggled to stay focused. when I sat down to get my blood work it turned into actual dread and I very embarrassingly started tearing up. I'm sure the technician just thought I was nervous, but that wasn't it. I was able to hold off sobbing until I left, but the annoying tears and sinking feeling took a while to go away

just feel embarrassed over all of it

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Wife problems that are not actually problems but kinda: I tend to wake up an hour or two earlier than my wife does. Which, weh! Why can we not wake up together in beautiful gay harmony!! Me laying in bed reading gay slop awaiting wifey to arise!!! oooaaaaaaauhhh

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (1 children)

there was leftover change stuck in the laundromat dryer. freed that like a lil side quest. sometimes it's the little things madeline-smug

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Another day, another day I get to be a pretty girl ✨️

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I got told my outfit was cute today :>

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[–] Ideology@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Trans mega news mega crossover:

β€˜We have way more power than they think’: Advocates host Trans Folks for Harris Zoom call

More than 1,000 people attend Trans Folks for Harris Zoom call.

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

I'm sure the democrats would never let a group lose their rights while in power right? hey don't just let a stacked supreme court or bipartisan bills do w/e to fuck people over right?

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Just got back from a backpacking trip in the Southwestern US. We had to cut it short because my friend fell ill, but still got to be in the wilderness for 6 days. lea-smile

It was so lovely, fellow trans comrades. Here’s a couple of photos:

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (9 children)

The strong overlap between autism and being trans is one of the great gifts bestowed upon this world by an unseen force.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (1 children)

horny, stupidYou can make vegan cream

You can make a vegan cream

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[–] oscardejarjayes@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago

Just recently I was at this cafe, and there were these four employees. They each had like a different area of responsibility (cashier, barista, food guy, and calling out orders), so I spoke to each of them independently. Now, the real juicy bit of this story, is that they ma'am'd and sir'd me in alternating order, which I thought was cool. bridget-vibe

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Thinking we might need to outlaw cishets until we figure out wtf is going on with those guys

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[–] Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (2 children)

cw sexual harassmentTwice this week a (different) man touched me inappropriately and I think it put me in a dark space desolate

I’m starting to resent my cis guy friends a bit because they always act like they support me but then are completely useless whenever something like that happens. The next day they’ll just start talking again about their favourite books that only have cis male characters. I wish I had more trans friends but I haven’t had the energy to meet new people this year.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

good news: I got the prescription for injections transshork-happy

annoyingthey jumpscared me by asking me about vaginoplasty. I wasn't mentally prepped to talk about that and it made me cry after the appointment ugh

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[–] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago

regimepilled femtanyl CONFIRMED

[–] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

You all taught me about Lex, where i made friends and went out Saturday night full femme for the first time in a girls night out. I got my hair styled and I was so cute! Saw an incredible drag show. Everyone was so super nice to me I felt like it was my birthday. I love being one of the ladies. It really is never too late. Thank you all for helping me get here I made it babes.

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[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (9 children)

cw: sad; transphobic parenti came out to my mum on the weekend and it didn't go too well. she's been pretty selfish with the whole thing and she keeps asserting that she gave birth to a son and doesn't have a daughter. i've blocked her for now, i don't know how this resolves but i have other people in my life who do actually care about me so i'd rather spend my time with them.

on the bright side i'm out to the majority of my friends now, i've switched over all my socials, and my skin is getting softer! i really love being trans, i just wish i didn't have to deal with any of this other shit...

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[–] pnwml@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 2 months ago

CW for work, medication, and mental health.

Tap for spoilerWork has been so busy and crushing with our workload and being on-call. It really feels like I haven't had a good breather since the winter holidays last year.

I really want to take a few week break and drive out to some beautiful places but not enough money and my car is always breaking down. Maybe I'll go camping locally..

On the plus side though, HRT is impressing me every week. My boobs are filling out and are about fist sized, body hair has lightened up, and can't fit into old pants because of these thighs.

I also started taking antidepressants again and they seem to be helping with my stress and depression, so thats nice. Therapy, gender affirming care, and coping techniques kept me alive but I was really struggling.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Had my final appointment with my psychiatrist today, and am now officially mentally healthy and thriving aubrey-smug .... kinda. I probably have some form of ADD, but I'd have to see a neuropsychologist for that, and the psychiatrist was pretty sure I wouldn't be able to get it covered since only people who have a severe enough case of it to not be able to work can get that publicly where I live, so I just have to facetank all the symptoms either way.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Wow, two Luna posts within 30 minutes? What's going on? Well, I've been taking estradiol injections for 10 weeks now. It's hard to imagine how different I feel from how I did a few months ago. I went from "um... yea, but I'm worried about certain things" and "I might stop, I'm just trying it out" to "grow Grow GROW" and "I need more. MORE!" The feeling of not wanting to go back, the feelings of excitement and happiness, as well as the feelings of anticipation for what lay further into my future, make it clear.

Starting E was one of the best decisions of my life, and I'm not even three months in. May the next 10 weeks continue the wonderful experience that the first 10 brought, and may I continue to further explore who I truly am, and who I want to be. πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

i want to kiss my wife but she's playing the sims sadness

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This mega needs more Sonic no-copyright

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (16 children)

I'm just gonna choose a gender based on what flag I like

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Me: i dont want to see anyone i want to be all alone im so fucking overwhelmed

10 minutes later: uuugghhh where are people i want to be social!

10 minutes later: im overwhelmed noo everyone go away!

Can my brain just make up its fucking mind!?

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[–] aaro@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (5 children)

after a grand total of 18 months on E, i have decided to change my profile pronouns from they/them to they/she. feel like i'm doing this all out of order

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Puppy remembered to brush it’s teeth today

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I will happily compliment a girl on her clothes, her hair, looking fresh and glowing, flirt, etc. No problem.

But I cannot do that with a guy, lol, just get so locked up. Like a pretty guy, fluffy hair??? I have never been able to get past the lump in my throat/butterflies in stomach lol

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (8 children)

News mega is getting obliterated this week trans-specter

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[–] rayne@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Came out to one of my mushroom bros today. Was worried but he was very accepting. And he lifts competitively so had his own experience with hormones to share, even estrogen which he used a few times when he was first balancing his t levels.

He even could relate to the sore nipples lol

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (8 children)

just found out T causes trans mascs to grow prostate tissue, that's neat. hell yeah lads

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (5 children)

there's two wolves inside of you

the two wolves:

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Working with people who didn't grow up communicating over text blows. Why does everything need to be a meeting?

[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

As far as my digging reveals, there are no known trans people in the towers on 9/11

Up to 18,000 people were in the towers when the first plane struck, so statistically at least one is trans

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

(possibly in poor taste but I thought it was kinda funny)

spoilernational-mourning-period feinberg-sicko

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (6 children)

two more hours at work denji-bored

thinking about going on a trip or something

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I feel like I don't have many trans things going on in my life (despite it being the only thing I think about), but I guess I'll just say I'm very trans and very happy right now. I feel good, I've been talking to all kinds of lovely trans people, its good vibes. Maybe not tonight, but I want to make another cute bracelet. Maybe a basic braid would be a good second one to go for. Just feelin' good after a kinda rough week comfy

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

When the retro poster woman has a freakishly small waist madeline-shock

But her shoulders look proportionally large badeline-heh

Anyway, you folkes’ advice to look at normal people non-judgmentally is nice. Helps I’m mostly around boring crackers. It’s obvious most adults don’t have tiny waists and I’ve never cared anyway. Shoulders in general often look weird regardless of size. Weird thing is I only know how I want to look by what I find attractive and I only find very rare people attractive atm.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

i had a dream someone had broken my cat ears

thankfully it was just a dream garf-chan

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I've had tits for like two months now and I'm still surprised by them

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

i'm homosexual and transgender

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