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The photo is a 1974 photo of Leslie Feinberg, from the FBI file on hir. I've written a piece on my interpretation of Transgender Warriors and Trans Liberation, but I don't think it's quite polished enough, so I'll post it later. Instead, I'll go over hir FBI file: https://s3.amazonaws.com/NARAprodstorage/lz/dc-metro/rg-065/6282555/Batch0010/6282555_100-HQ-480756.PDF.

The FBI thought Feinberg could be violating the Communist Control Act, advocating the overthrow of the government, and engaging in rebellion. Needless to say, a hero to all of us. Feinberg was a member of the Workers World Party (the party still exists, but more notably PSL split from it), which apparently wasn't openly advocating for the overthrow of the U.S, they just think it's inevitable.

My favorite line? "captioned subject is believed to be a white female, who became male through some kind of sex change operation, and is possibly homosexual". Some interesting language choice, and it's an interesting snapshot into the evolution of Leslie's identity.

The FBI found Leslie's place of birth and birthdate from public school records. It's a bit of an interesting look into all of the many places the FBI can get their information, along with how information like that was so much more patchwork before the digital age.

"Interview of subject is not being recommended because of the questionable nature of his sexuality". Hmm, interesting.

It's interesting how their investigation spanned multiple cities, from Kansas City to NYC to Bufffalo to Boston. It probably involved quite a few officers, though I'm sure it wasn't the main focus for all of them.

There's some interesting mention about changes in Leslie's gender identity. Born a girl, for a time wearing a beard and mustache, then going back to "she". I'm sure we all know, Feinberg's gender didn't stop evolving there.

"Subject reportedly contributes all extra money to WWP", Leslie definitely was dedicated to the cause. Leslie doesn't attend NYC WWP meetings, but the FBI doesn't mention why.

The FBI isn't immune to typoes, Leslie did some "criminal terspass" that garnered some attention.They wasted some time checking if Leslie was in Boston, but verified where Leslie in NYC lived by pretending to be a part of the Voter Registration Commission.

There's a whole 43 pages of documents, all just from 1974-75. There's plenty of interesting tidbits in there, so maybe check it out.


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[–] buh@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (9 children)
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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (9 children)

Whomst do I message to request them to add new pronouns? Would love to try on sie/hir leslie-shining

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

just dropped a plate and it shattered kitty-birthday-sad

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[–] Abracadaniel@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

after experimenting with some light cross-dressing I can confirm I am cis, but I do like being cute & occasionally having femme elements to my outfit. I like being feminized for my partner as a sex thing, but I still don't think it's a gender thing.

edit: apologies if this doesn't belong here.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

So something weird happened today. The trans gods decided to make all of my co-workers forget my name, so I got to re-introduce myself (they didn't autocorrect to deadname this time 😄). Additionally, while I still get misgendered, I might have heard someone refer to me as she/her? Just once? I might be going crazy, but I'm going to pretend that's 100% what was said.

Also about to bump my HRT to the next level, I'm getting bloodwork soon and will ask for some blockers in addition to the E injections. I don't know why I decided to make myself wait for this a couple of months ago, clearly I like to see myself just sit in anticipation. /s

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Thesis: I am tired and should sleep

Antithesis: or I could refresh the trans megathread and keep talking to people

Synthesis: I will dream of you all and of this place cat-trans

Good night blob-sleep

Update: im not eepy but i must sleepy. Preparations have commenced, let the body hit the bed (let the body hit the bed, let the body hit the... BEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDD) and the lights turn low, eepy updates with the blow-by-blow, i must toss and i must turn, for this night this sleep i yearn. With plushies close and blankets wrapped, around me where i earlier napped, I lay my head and rest my eyes, and wait upon the sun to rise

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

the feel of hair on my shoulders is so comfy

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[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (11 children)

EDIT: More cats added! I'm gonna sumbit this to c/emoji tomorrow, if you have any flag request lmk in the replies and I'll make them before I submit

cat heartsI made a few cat heart variants for different pride flags.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Trans chat was talking about the soft lovey dovey romance and it's had me thinking!

sad ishIn most of my adult life, I've always had someone else in bed when I went to sleep. It was weird the first few months after the breakup, they'd never be there again and I had a really hard sleeping on my own. I'm more used to it now but it's still kind of weird to have no one there in bed I guess. Or when I go home, no one else is there, I don't have to cook for someone else, there's never food prepared for me (not that much change there...). It still feels empty that the cats aren't with me.

There's good stuff, no one is staying up late keeping me up. No one is complaining about the food I made. The only mess I clean is mine. When I want to watch something, I pick it and don't have to wait or ask for the TV or whatever. I'm free to go where and when I want and never have to check in, or make sure someone else is set up, or anything.

As much as the loneliness sucks, being in a bad relationship was worse. It was like being alone and feeling lonely next to someone who insists they love you

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[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

chomsky-yes-honey so...tired...

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (13 children)

I don't have much trans related stuff to post, so here's why I love cutting and eating apples.

There's just such a system to it, yaknow? I always cut them the same way, sometimes I'll just continue the pattern for longer. Nothing quite makes brain go brr like patterns and systems. The crispness is also really satisfying to cut through and then eat. And then obviously you can dip them, usually I do peanut butter (which is also perfect for making brain go brr, very consistent, texture I like, just tastes good), but right now I've got carmal (I love that people say this word two ways, how funny). The whole process and snack is just great, lots of little systems I can do every time.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (10 children)

Someone said I have nice hands and I might never recover :meow-melt:

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (8 children)

I have begun experimenting with names. I realllllllly want to share my list cause they're cute af, but not online 😭

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[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Reading queer romance to get in the mindset to write my own and

I'm having thoughts
spoiler impure thoughts
wanton, risqué thoughts
spoiler last chance to avoid reading these vulgar, filthy, obscene thoughts I want go to dinner with a hot professor lady while she infodumps to me for hours while holding my hand and accidentally brushing her leg against mine under the table crush :::

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[–] Bat@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Normally I have nightmares about being attacked by roaches or sleep paralysis, today my brain decided to double up desolate

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[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I saw a Reddit thread where somebody said, “If the trans genocide is fake then so is white genocide.” And the conservatives who were previously saying trans genocide doesn’t exist were falling over themselves with several paragraphs to explain why white genocide was actually happening.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (10 children)

Wow, what if a really cool trans person told me what outfit to wear?

What if it was actually just the outfit I wanted to wear anyway, but it feels better because a cool trans person told me to wear it?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

i miss the time when hexbear threads auto-updated. having to refresh sucks

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Good Girls, Bad Gateways: the Hexbear story

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Bjork was so real for, on more than one occasion, attacking the paparazzi physically. I'd punch them too

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

Oh I am feeling like a bad bitch today and I'm loving it

[–] Des@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

CW gender envy, my usual wishy washyness

life update?

my co-worker the other day showing off how E had returned 1 inch of her hairline and then showing off her muscles

it's wild she won the E lottery i think even though she started past 30. i know she's trying to alleviate my fears (we can only talk about this stuff on the downlow like at most once a week)

still makes me feel like chomsky-yes-honey

but yeah i think im ready to at least do this DIY thing as soon as a little financial stability comes my way. my partner is effectively trying to outrun what i know is a coming brutal recession despite being in an industry that should be swimming in work. if they can lock down the one interested job offer (out of like 20) i can take a breath and start fucking with my endocrine system a bit


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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

Im gonna try and go to get my levels taken and maybe get a perscription tomorrow. Ive been doing DIY for almost 2 years, never had my bloods done, only been on E monotherapy. Chat, im scared.

The challenging/anxiety inducing aspects of this are many. In no particular order:

  • i have to go outside and interact with people
  • i have to go downtown, and even worse, park downtown
  • this place doesnt do appointments at first so i just have to go walk in and ask for what i want
  • im afraid the doctor will say i have completely fucked myself wrt breast growth
  • im afraid the doctor will say i have ruined my health in some other way, possibly irreversibly
  • what if i get there and they cant see me for whatever reason
  • what if i break down during all of this (very real possibility)
  • how will I pay for it? I have no health insurance, and i think they do sliding scale, but im freaked out about this one in particular


Theres probably more to be freaked about, thats just off the top of my head. One of my friends might take me, but i just feel akward and weird. I know i cant take care of myself and need help to do basic stuff like this, but i dont like admitting it and having someone with me will probably be more anxiety inducing than otherwise. The cortisol is running high these days madeline-sadeline

My biggest hurdle was paying for parking, but i fixed that one (i downloaded the parking app (it only took me 6 weeks aubrey-rage-cry)). And now im faced with all the other anxiety inducing stuff. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh incoherent babbling screaming powercry-2

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

Wish I could sit down more at work. i can feel my ass getting a little squishier and it feels affirming

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Bit the bullet and got TikTok cuz I got ADHD, why not get some easy dopamine? ND, trans, music, commie recommendations? Or otherwise.

Edit: the algorithm got me for the first two things. I’ll figure it out, but recs still appreciated. I didn’t expect so many vids to have too much information to process, but I can rewatch. So many pretty people.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

injection done. it was a left leg week which was good, because i find it so much harder to use my non-dominant hand when injecting my right leg

[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Threads so fresh the replies aren't collapsed.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

datingdownloaded bumble. i have made my profile private for now because i’m about to go to a different state for college literally tomorrow so i won’t be able to go on any local dates. but god bumble is still suggesting profiles to me and chat, they’re hot. the nonbinarys are the hottest but i’ve even found some of the cis guys pretty hot… (so far bumble only seems to be suggesting me nonbinary folks and men, even though I also have women checked off as a gender I’m interested in dating, so idk what’s up with that). i’m so sad i won’t be able to date anyone from my town, I just feel like I would have matched with some of the hotties I saw.

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