anti_cishet_aktion

BE NOT AFRAID

causing a stack overflow error to fix bottom dysphoria

This created quite the images in my mind

What's funny is that my partner, who is a cis woman, agreed with what I said, but this transphobe conveniently neglected that because she saw an opportunity for misgendering me and accusing me of "male privilege" in the process.

The differentiating between sex and gender is definitely transphobic but I don’t see a problem with a trans person menioning that they were amab or afab. I think that the difference in which male presenting and female presenting children are treated are important topics to talk about, also for trans people (if they want to obviously).

I view my experiences of sexual assaults and aggressions when I was a child as part of growing up while presenting as a girl. These events would not have happened if the perpetrators did not see me as a girl. And these events have had a huge impact on who I am today, and I need to share the afab part to anyone that is important enough to me that I want them to understand who I am and why I am who I am. Transphobes will use it to disregard my gender, but anyone smart enough to be able to distinguish gender identity and assigned gender at birth will understand what I mean when I tell them that my assigned gender at birth was female.

Idk if I need to add a disclaimer that I recognise that sexual violence can be a part of a boys’ childhood as well same for trans children who present as boy or non binary. It’s just that in the violence that I experienced my female presentation was very explicitly the reason why I was assaulted. I’m pretty sure that the median cis woman gets most frequently sexually harassed when she is a child (for me it was between ages 10 and 16), so sexual harassment is a pretty big part of growing up when you are perceived as being a girl as well.

The "you can't change your sex, just gender" feels transphobic

It feels transphobic because it is. Like just straight up transphobia. It’s also just factually untrue.

Most cis "allies" still see trans people's gender as matching their birth sex, and are just correctly gendering us because it's what we ask for, not because they actually believe we are that gender.

Absolutely feel the same way. I'm surprised more people don't.

correctly gendering us because it's what we ask for, not because they actually believe we are that gender

Ray Blanchard and his consequences have been a disaster for the human race.

I am a transSEXUAL I have transed my SEX.
My gender has not changed.

It really feels like half the time cis people ust think it's the opposite and you change your "gender" by being a man who wears woman's clothes and uses different pronouns.
I fucking hate cissies.

I feel like that TERFs aren't usually the kind to hide behind the "gender/sex distinction" shit in this manner (y'know, "adult human female"), but I guess they could be. I find that it's something that a lot of """"well-meaning"""" libs will do to make the concept of trans people sound more digestible for conservatives.

Being a feminist who thinks that having a Y chromosome automatically puts you on a specific part of the hierarchy is absolutely fucking crazy. How can a feminist have such an immaterialist perception of patriarchy? Bioessentialism rots the mind.

No, teaching people an incorrect model first necessitates re-educating them later or else they're going to cause issues. This isn't like Newtonian gravity and relativity - a brief explanation of the social construction of sex can be done in just a few sentences.

states of matter is a great analogy because there are way more than four of them too

What I'm "in-between sex wise" is your mother's legs.