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This always seemed to me like men finding out how hard women have it. "Nobody believed that one guy, but aren't they supposed to when this happens? I guess nobody believes men!"
Hahaha nope...that's just what happens to women, which contradicts your incel fantasies about falseremoved accusations. It turns out we live in a world where predators are allowed free reign to do whatever they want with zero consequences becauseremoved culture is massively ingrained into everything.
even if it were true that 'cis dudes are less believed' (which i'm pretty fucking sure it isn't), it would still be the fault of the patriarchy, not feminism or women, for enforcing those toxic standards for men
It's not that people don't believe men when they come forward, it's that people believe it's physically impossible for such an act to happen to a man and that it's impossible for men to be victims, because men "always want it". It's a different struggle to what women face. It's not harder or easier, it's different, because traditional/patriarchical gender roles are different between men and women. Anyone trying to make a "competition" out of this, or say that women have it easier, is sick in the head as you said.
Cishet dude here.
When I was sexually assaulted about 20 years ago by my ex I never even told anyone because what was even the point. "Oh, the girl who is out of your league forced herself on you? Yeah right." That's basically how I imagined it going down. I can't tell you if men are believed more or less than women. I just know in my personal experience it felt so pointless to even tell a friend that I didn't bother.
Oh, and here's a kicker on that. I told exactly two women about my assault a few years ago. So imagine my surprise when they were talking about that "man vs bear" choice that was popular on social media when they told me and agreed with each other, "you don't know what it's like. You've never been assaulted or harassed." The only two women I ever told. Didn't even remember me telling them about one of the worst things a women ever did to me. That's how unimportant it is to people. And I don't even know what was worse about that. The fact that they forgot my assault or the fact that they know I'm such a plain looking dude that I haven't ever had a woman harass me because I've never had a woman who wasn't my partner ever even compliment me sexually or romantically, much less sexually harass me.
It all hurts and is frustrating. That's my experience.