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In the unironic way. I expected it to exist in some form, but being this formalized? wow.
Anyway it's apparently still a thing https://inspirationalwomenseries.com/mail-order-bride-sites/ yikes-2

And you used to be able to get them from Ukraine! https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3249478/

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[–] videogame@hexbear.net 64 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It's kinda weird how this was a normalized joke in TV/movies

Because this is just like, slavery right

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 46 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)
[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 26 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I got into a spirited debate with someone who was saying that it's basically a transaction that benefits both parties

Actually, it benefits the women more because they get to move to a nice country, and her kids will be set up for success.

[–] CleverOleg@hexbear.net 28 points 5 days ago

I was there at the time (the 90s). It was a very common “joke” and no one ever made the connection that hey, that’s weird how we just destroyed the Soviet economy and now all these women from the former USSR are available to be purchased…

[–] came_apart_at_Kmart@hexbear.net 53 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I saw an ad from the like 1930s for buying "healthy" indigenous children from those residential schools to do farm/house work and "raise" until adulthood.

settler colonial states and their affection for slave labor are inseparable.

[–] robot_dog_with_gun@hexbear.net 35 points 5 days ago

not just slavery, not just child labor

[–] TheVelvetGentleman@hexbear.net 45 points 5 days ago (2 children)

In the unironic way. I expected it to exist in some form, but being this formalized? wow.

The image you posted is fake. It's using a modern typeface. The photo is taken from the internet. Mail order brides are and were definitely a thing but this is a joke.

http://tinyurl.com/28bo9lcr

[–] RoabeArt@hexbear.net 21 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I was gonna say the text for the "ad" looks way too clean and straight, and doesn't match the artifacting of the rest of the image.

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 10 points 5 days ago
[–] Spongebobsquarejuche@hexbear.net 41 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)
[–] propter_hog@hexbear.net 33 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I went to college with a russian girl whose mom was a mail order bride.

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 24 points 5 days ago (1 children)

What did she tell you about it?

[–] propter_hog@hexbear.net 11 points 5 days ago

Not much, other than they both wanted to go back. They were from Novosibirsk.

[–] Mardoniush@hexbear.net 26 points 5 days ago

Oh man yeah. Did you know literal bride selling (as in selling a wife you didn't want) was a thing in England until the 1800s (admittedly often used as a way of mutual divorce)

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 21 points 5 days ago

Actually makes me feel physically ill

[–] rootsbreadandmakka@hexbear.net 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Pretty sure this still is a thing

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 11 points 5 days ago

Yeah I write that in the body text

[–] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 15 points 5 days ago

Forget everything you think you know about "mail-order" brides and get ready for an outrageously funny, touching and unforgettable look at the extreme lengths people travel for love.

Sex trafficking, how quirky!

[–] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago

before the invasion ukraine was the sex trafficking capital of europe

uh, unfun fact, i guess

[–] Tomorrow_Farewell@hexbear.net 14 points 5 days ago
[–] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 10 points 5 days ago

inspirationalwomenseries.com

ranked list of sex trafficking websites

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