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Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

My sisters BF came over, ans we starting talking about history and geopolitics. He reminds me of how I was back in my radlib days. It hurt my head to have that discussion ๐Ÿ˜–

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I keep getting almost frustrated at how much transitioning has improved my life because I can't really explain how or why it has in a concrete way. For a while before my egg finally cracked I remember thinking that "okay I might maybe be trans but how on earth would that solve any of my problems?" and honestly I was kind of onto something there. How would becoming a girl solve any of my problems? That doesn't make any fucking sense! And then I transitioned anyway and oh wow I a lot of my problems have gone away! How does that work? I don't know and it feels like it shouldn't but it did!

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

this is really amazing, thank you for sharing!

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

watching other people chop vegetables is terrifying ngl

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I spent years putting together my wardrobe. If I start hormones, are they still gonna fit??

Oh shit, this is bad! Will my new fleshy bits be contained??

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

You'll have time. The changes aren't instantaneous and take a good while. But, if all goes well, yes, you'll have to replace it eventually.

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Bad news, they might not fit because good news your body is gonna change shape

I had to toss most of my old boy clothes (way too tight in the chest and ass now). I don't fit some of the clothes I got earlier in my transition as well :(

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

Hmmmmmm I'm soooo eepysleepy today~ (I was kept up till 7am by chronic pain but still woke up before noon) catgirl-flop

[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (6 children)

I like to think of myself as a Math Person, maybe not at the level where I can do meaningful research or whatever, but at least at the level where I can apply what I know to solve everyday problems. But today I ended up spending probably 20 minutes to figure out how much water I should add to 90% rubbing alcohol to turn it into 70% alcohol (it is just basic algebra) blob-no-thoughts

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

my Stuff I Just Think Is Neat windowsill update

How about those pinecones?

They're pretty big!

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

Heeeeeeestiaposting!

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (16 children)

eroticahuman domestication guide wasn't very good imo. i guess not being a submissive means i'm not the target market but still

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

SwitchyWitchyandBitchy (12/2 - 12/8)
HelltakerHomosexual* (12/9 - 12/15)
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โ€‹ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (17 children)
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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

americans are so horny for marching bands it's weird

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[โ€“] kristina@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (2 children)

whats the gender neutral form of the word dude?

duden?

[โ€“] Hestia@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

I believe that dude has evolved to take on a gender-neutral form, but I would rather just never be called any variation of dude when there's so many cuter things to call me.

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[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

thanxgiving food is so much more enjoyable when you're reheating it as leftovers instead of trying to enjoy it after spending hours cooking lol

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

I pretty dramatically put my fists on my hips earlier today and oh wow they actually kind of hurt? holy shit are they doing what I think they are?

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

LIFTING UPDATESo I am STILL not lifting yet, it's been like a month. I stopped taking tramadol and like I wanna get back, but Idk if it will make it better. What if without the pain receptors being numbed, it'll just hurt and be excruciating and I die? What if I rot instead???

I like that my chronic pain/fatigue is maybe stopping me from doing the thing that could make my chronic pain/fatigue less bad.

catgirl-cry I am never going to be the beautiful muscledyke........ tfw not athletic........

In other news I have the most creeping feeling that Fallow isn't a one-run game and that stuff changes, more than just the sealed door, if you play it again. I'll have to go back and puzzle over it. Give it more kisses, my beloved.

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (11 children)

Recreational estrogen usage should be a thing I feel, popping a few with the homies and just vibin. For all I know this prob already a thing but not like I get invited to things sadness

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (2 children)

lesbiam boyfriend spilled my soupI cried

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I never should have agreed to 5 12 hour days in a row. What the fuck was I thinking. I guess I was thinking about the paycheque

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[โ€“] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 6 months ago

Since I have to wait on the estrogen to arrive again I was thinking of already taking the bicalutamide I have.

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

a fanfic I just started following dropped 5 chapters coming in to 6500 words, all of them in the last six hours, fuck i wish i had that level of energy in anything anymore tbh

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (5 children)

I'm disappointed that I started so strong on my vn project but now progress has slowed to a crawl. I feel like self-doubt has set in and I can no longer judge if I'm doing something interesting that people would want to engage with. I'm also fighting myself, or more like trying really hard to reign in the excited inner child that's like "add this! and this! and wouldn't it be cool if this!!" so I can maintain a manageable scope and actually release something one day. Ideas come easy. Execution, not so much.

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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (3 children)
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