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Hi Everyone! I'm planning on adding stuff here but first enjoy your new weekly mega <3


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[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

mild vent, slight drug mentioncis friend of mine messaged me for the first time in a little bit. saw the noto and was kind of hoping he was gonna be checking in, seeing how i was doing given the Everything of Everything going on. he was just complaining about how cold it is outside. yeah, sure, thanks for checking in buddy, guess i'll just go back to getting high alone doggirl-cry

idk. maybe i'm being uncharitable.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

rant/vent/whatever about change and hrtIts been like six months since I first committed to myself to getting on diy, missed every timeframe I set myself, just can't do it. Can't bring myself to change. I don't understand why I can't change. Why I can't progress. I just can't. I'm stupid I guess. Scared. Honestly don't deserve the help.
spoiler suicide Never going to be able to change. So incredibly unhappy with how things are but still don't do anything to change it. Should just kill myself and get it over with. I'll never be happy, I'll never be at peace, and I'm never going to change anything. I wish I had someone to take my snakes. I wonder what will happen to them.
self harmGoing to try and distract myself again, like I do every fucking day, and if that doesn't work I'll cut myself. Already broke my streak and I don't care. Going to kill myself anyway. What a sad, pathetic end this makes.

I remember people telling me from the time I was a child life was hard. It is, it sucks, I hate life, I hate living. Why would anyone force this shit on someone.

I don't want it to be over but I don't want to keep struggling. This sucks and I hate it and I can't change any of it. Why can't I do anything ever. Why am I a useless, pathetic sack of shit. Why am I this way and my sister is fine. Literally just bad genetics or some shit. Who gives a fuck. Someone kill me.

I take back what I said the other day, I do blame autism for this shit. NTs can change and work on themselves. I have always struggled with change and risk, no matter how small, and this is just too big for me to cope with.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

What’s stopping you from doing diy?

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

I need your honest opinion on how gay was it that a dude in my freshmen year told me unprompted and in the middle of class that my eyes looked like Taylor Swift’s. doggirl-sweat

I feel like that’s not something you say to another boy…but this guy was like…straight as hell as far as I could tell, but now looking back it’s kind of weird.

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[–] ComradeMonotreme@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Golden Claw retrieved for my beautiful love Camilla. Absolute zero curiosity as to what's further in this deep dark barrow. Turning around right now.

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Alright no more smol bean stuff I'm going to start using more capitalization so my shit is readable. Feels weird. Was just going to use my alt to do that.

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

I have been trying to come out to one of my D&D group buddies for the last four days, but every time I give him a call or try to schedule one he's unavailable. I think he's going to be accepting, but I do want to take care of this before our session this week.

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

Reposting since I posted it right before the last megathread closed

So, previously I put out feelers for a super-specific idea for a TTRPG campaign and didn't get particular traction. That's okay.

I want to put out more general feelers for a tracha tabletop roleplaying game thing. For opsec and accessibility purposes, I am still thinking scheduled synchronous text chat with matrix chat. For the game system, would rule out D&D 5e or other neo-trad game, but would otherwise be open. My current preferences for running games leans towards OSR/NSR games, but I still enjoy more narrative games as well (PbtA, FitD, etc...).

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

A while ago, I filled in for someone who called in sick in mental health - they didn't have anybody to cover this new patient they were accepting and they were a kid and we had the extra staff. Anyway, sitting in that little room in silence was one of the best few hours of work I'd had in a while. One of the regulars came in to cover, finally, but they still needed 2. We sat together in total silence reading for an hour, I switched with someone from my unit, and when my coworker came back she talked about how horrible it was just sitting in silence lol. I got way too many people who always want my ear or my opinion or there's some proverbial fire to handle at work and then home everyone's yakking or I have some event or agreed to a presentation.

But that few hours in calm silence and peace was so sweet~

I do not get the people that find all the socializing stuff I have to do daily between work and home life as appealing. Put me back in a quiet room with no one else or at least someone who doesn't want to talk

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

kill james bond cancelled for not liking flushed away

[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Is it perhaps a little overly dramatic to be playing the ME2 finale music in my head just for getting dressed to go out to the mailbox? Probably, but fuck it, if it's what it takes to get me outside to pick up my pride pins and sapphic lit then it's what we're doing.

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[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Does anyone have a saved version/instructions on how to save a local version of the whole website that shows u how to make ur own HRT from E powder?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (12 children)

it's the long-awaited return of music monday - watcha been listening to? also don't judge me for the grimes album okay her music is good

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Bit Idea: Change your name in your school's system on the first day of class.

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago
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