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[–] RagingRobot@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

My school has this out on the football field. There was a girl in our school who died in a drunk driving accident and her parents came on that day and told us all about it too in addition to seeing the fake wreck thing.

That girl was so sweet and innocent it was super sad that she died. I will always remember her. Her name was Melody

[–] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I feel like Alberta is just America North.

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

The Premier of Alberta went down to Trumps inauguration and was the only premier in all of Canada to not sign an agreement to go against Trumps trade horsefuckery.

So... yeah.

[–] waggz@programming.dev 4 points 5 hours ago

for me in the late 90s, pre Columbine so no shooter drills, the state police bright in a presentation with a bunch of dui wrecks and deaths. then they followed it up with a wrecked car outside with helicopter ems arriving. obviously it made an impression since i still remember it. i still remember the smell of blood from driving past the fatal accident that actually killed a classmate too though.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Attended it as a student my senior year, 2005. Was aware of it in prior years too. I went to a school with ~3000 students, in a districting combining two towns of about 53k people.

I also attended it as a member of the ambulance crew and once right after graduation, and again about a decade later.

[–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 9 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

My American high school did this in preparation for prom night. Two teachers would play the role of the parents, and they would tow a couple of totalled cars onto the football field. The entire school would be paraded out into the stadium to watch the police come and tell the parents their child was killed after driving under the influence.

The DJ at my senior prom played a song where the chorus said something along the lines of "Put your hands up if you're an alcoholic". Of course everyone (17 & 18 years old) threw their hands up and danced to that one.

[–] P1k1e@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Ours had some theater kid pretend to be dead for a week and did a fake memorial on the football field. They played it like he was actually killed while driving drunk.

I also remember not really caring cuz I didn't know him, and wondered why the whole school had to pretend to care. I kinda wonder if it was puberty that made me not care or if I just ain't got that empathy in me.

[–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

That's very extreme lol.

There were a few deaths throughout my time in public school. I didn't think too much about the people I didn't know. Only 1 person that I was friends with, so I did attend his memorial at which i cried. I think its normal to not spend too much time thinking about the deaths of people you don't know.

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

People die every day. I still feel bad for them and their families' pain, but if you truly mourned each one, it's all you'd be able to do.

[–] rockettaco37@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago

I don't really remember this, but I remember them showing us literal crash photos and whatnot

[–] General_Shenanigans@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

My school had a wreck towed on campus to look at, but no skit. No, that was too tame. They held periods during which they had a speaker come and show us gorey slides of the results of car wrecks. You could opt out of it of course, but most attended and traumatized ourselves. It sounds fake, and now I’m wondering if I am relaying a false memory about it or not. Did this happen to anybody else?

[–] TheOakTree@lemm.ee 1 points 3 hours ago

No pictures for me, but instead we got anecdotes from parents and first responders of fatal accidents in our own town. Someone talked to us about scraping brains off the street after collisions without seatbelts.

[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago

We definitely had the wrecked car before prom at my high school. Not the slide show though. I think one year we did have to attend a presentation where a parent who lost their kid in an accident gave a talk, which is also a little fucked up.

[–] brlemworld@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

We had something similar, but there was a helicopter instead of an ambulance

[–] awake01@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

"Operation Prom Night". We lost several that day.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

That "... or no" at the end got me good.

[–] atx_aquarian@lemmy.world 13 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

At mine, on that day, they started it by announcing over the intercom one morning that a popular classmate had been killed by a drunk driver on the way into school. Even though it should have been obvious that's not how it would really have been handled, it got the shock it was intended to get. A few people even ran out of classrooms crying. That was before everyone had cell phones.

I guess they wanted to make a point about the fatality rate statistic, too, though, so they kept going, announcing another person every however many minutes. It immediately became really obvious to everyone what was going on when they announced the second person. I think it lost more of its desired effect the more they continued.

[–] candybrie@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

We did the same. It was called every 15 minutes. They started with a teacher instead of a kid though. We also got the wrecked car and dead students. But they had the drunk driver teen live and show us them going through court and being sentenced to jail.

[–] Godric@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

As an (insert counrty you like to shit on here) person, I only remember violent gunman drills specifically. We would all be instructed to hide in a corner(s) not visible from the hallway, and to stay dead silent, while the administration staff knocked on the doors and didn't do the "all OK" actions.

Funnily enough, my suggestion we "grab a knife or knifey object and we'll bum rush the fucker" NEVER went over well, for some reason.

[–] plaguesandbacon@lemmy.ca 7 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Born and raised in Alberta, I've never heard of or seen this

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Then you are lucky. I was in Fort McMurray and got dragged across the river to another school to go watch this nonsense.

[–] Lauchmelder@feddit.org 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

wait this genuinely isn't a shitpost?

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

Not a shitpost. I remember this happening quite vividly. We sat in an auditorium and watched some giant video about the dangers of drinking and driving. They talked about texting and driving because cell phones amongst teens were starting to become a thing but no video was made yet. After watching it they talked about an exercise that we would do and asked for participants. I put my hand up out of boredom but wasn't chosen. We went outside where there was at least one firetruck, an ambulance and a couple of cop cars. A police line was set up and beyond it were the people who had been picked that were either lying on the floor motionless or acting injured. Some more camp than others. They then took some more participants and had them be 'first responders' to help the injured until professional help could come. After we finished we went back in the auditorium and talked about what happened. I know there was a gong involved somewhere because someone hit it and half of the class laughed almost immediately and the teachers snapped to say it was more serious and solemn. Can't really remember anything after that but my guess is that from there on it was just generic field trip shit with us shuttling back to our main school.

[–] JakenVeina@lemm.ee 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

As an American who grew up in the 90s and 00s... what the fuck, this was a THING?!

[–] Srh@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

As an American who grew up in the 90's and 00's...yes it was a thing... unfortunately.

[–] M0oP0o@mander.xyz 3 points 15 hours ago

Yeah they still have a staged "wreck" just outside of a nearby town. MADD is nutty when you realize they collect a fuck ton of money and have almost no legitimate way to spend it.

[–] GlendatheGayWitch@lemmy.world 12 points 19 hours ago

In my school, one student was pronounced dead at the scene, one was taken by ambulance, and another was airlifted.

Every day, we would hear a car crash and heartbeat come up on the announcement system and then a grim reaper would walk into a classroom and tap a student on the should who "died" from drunk driving. They were taken to another room, where they put on makeup and a tombstone was placed for them in front of the school. At the end of the day, all the "dead" students would stand behind their tombstone. The "dead" would still attend class, but say nothing.

At the end of the week, there was a big presentation, where some people who survived a drunk driving accident spoke about their experience and statistics. He had suffered third-degree burns across his body and took off his shirt and walked around the auditorium, so that we could see the aftermath.

Fatal Choices was intense

[–] FanciestPants@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

Sounds like it may have been Gene Parmesan

[–] ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

We had to wear goggles that simulated being drunk like that one episode of the Simpsons and then try to do basic tasks like walk from one point to another or whatever so they could show how it impaired your motor skills. But it backfired because they just really exaggerate the visual impairment you get from drinking, they’re basically putting on a really too strong pair of glasses. But we did several rounds and eventually got somewhat used to it, it was a big game of who could seem the least impaired, the message was completely lost on us, etc

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

And this is why I refuse to be a high school teacher. 😂

[–] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 3 points 15 hours ago

We got to wear some glasses that supposedly gave you drunken/on drugs vision. Everybody liked that.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 45 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

They not only did this whole skit at my high school, they literally had a helicopter from the local hospital airlift the "injured" students off the football field where the assembly was held.

I was kinda jealous of my friend, who was one of the two kids who got to ride the chopper. I've never ridden in a chopper. 🥺

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

I'm sorry you didn't GET TO THE CHOPPA!

[–] Majorllama@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It is worth noting that this sort of thing was only done for a very brief period of time. It's not like this is how all American schools have warned students since 1978.

Still hilarious when you look back on it.

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

2004, we made my buddy laugh when he was supposed to be playing dead and got in trouble lol

[–] Majorllama@lemmy.world 10 points 22 hours ago

Making friends laugh when they are supposed to be still/silent is like... Half the reason to have friends. All thebsrupid charades we used to do whenever someone was on the phone with their parents or girlfriend lol. Or the moaning and making ridiculous comments loudly lol.

I don't often remember highschool fondly but it happens once in awhile.

[–] dogsnest@lemmy.world 45 points 1 day ago (3 children)

In America they do that in between active shooter drills.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

And tornado drills. Americans love drilling.

[–] Akasazh@feddit.nl 5 points 13 hours ago

Terrified at a young age, it may not be weird people take to the one legal drug if they finally reach the age of legality.

[–] trolololol@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

in between active shooters ~~drills~~.

Ftfy

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 4 points 10 hours ago

They have to do drills to make sure the shooter is ready.

[–] xylomog@programming.dev 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We had a day when they simulated a group of students being killed in a drunk driving accident. They still had to come to school, though, so they wore white face paint and weren't supposed to interact with anyone.

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

My school had this too. The fake crash was on the grass by the bus loop, and the theatre kids involved went to class with ghost facepaint and didn't talk until school was dismissed. NGL it stuck with me, but I was already afraid of alcohol and drugs because of DARE* 🤷‍♂️

*Discredited program that only worked on me apparently.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 6 points 10 hours ago

DARE worked on a lot more than just you. It even worked to get a lot of kids into drugs!

[–] alekwithak@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago

Yes, but it wasn't fake. Three students died playing drunk motorcycle chicken, two guys and one of them had their girlfriend on the back. The whole school was in mourning and I got written up for pointing out that they were clearly fucking idiots.

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