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It’s been nice to see ordinary Americans open up to life in China but everyone is acting blind to their censorship. Makes me thankful for the fediverse and being able to self host my own instance.

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[–] Sgt_choke_n_stroke@lemmy.world 19 points 4 days ago

That app doesn't like gambling, politics, or sexually explicit material.

Your post probably fell under politics.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 44 points 4 days ago (1 children)

This is it. Self hosting, federation, not for profit is the way. We need an internet that is made by just regular people for no better reason than it's fun. Not just social media either. We need an entire open internet, free and clear of all ulterior motives (or more likely still having bad actors mixed in, but at least they're not pulling any strings at the upper levels).

I don't know how possible that is, but I know we need it.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 9 points 4 days ago (22 children)

Fully agree! Thanks for putting my thought into much better words.

The only issue I see now is how to surpass bad mods and admins? The balance between filtering off topic or bad content versus anything goes but then nazis come out seems to be a challenge plus power tripping.

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 13 points 4 days ago

That's a never-ending process of everyone voting and discussing where the line is and where it should be.

There is no "final" solution, instead the solution is for people to collectively and continiously keep solving it every day.

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[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 26 points 4 days ago (35 children)

I've noticed a very pro-China shift on Lemmy since Trump became president. Yeah, Trump is awful, but it's not like that makes China or Russia better. It makes them all bad.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 18 points 4 days ago

That started well before he became president.

[–] bennieandthez@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 4 days ago

China is good actually.

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[–] Loss@sh.itjust.works 12 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Xiaohongshu bans all politics, even references. There's more serious platforms for those type of people, whereas xiaohongshu is to have fun and connect with others.

[–] bunkyprewster@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

I've been in a lot of political discussions on Xiaohongshu. It seems people learn a little Marxism even in high school and are happy to share about it.

Not everything has been super fabulous about China, but nothing critical of Mao, and a big consensus that living in China is kinder to people who aren't wealthy than the US

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 2 points 2 days ago

Thanks! Didn’t know that at first

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[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 25 points 4 days ago (2 children)

China is pretty sensitive about depictions of Mao, so it doesn't surprise me.

[–] Yingwu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 4 days ago

Ironically enough it's actually super popular in China to "Rent-a-Mao" or Chiang Kai-Shek or whoever else from China's modern history. There are a lot of Mao impersonators, just like we have impersonators of Elvis.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Even positive ones? But what's up with that?

[–] Natanael@slrpnk.net 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

It's like how companies don't like satirical use of their trademarks even if positive. Brand control. Or for China, propaganda control. They don't want you to get comfortable using jokes about it.

[–] CommanderCloon@lemmy.ml 7 points 4 days ago

Xiaohongshu does not tolerate political posts altogether, from what I read

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[–] recreationalcatheter@lemm.ee 10 points 4 days ago

Awwww, you poor thing.

They didn't see you as a useful idiot so they leveraged their hatred for what you are and banished you.

Leopards are hungry on both sides of the line.

[–] xep@fedia.io 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Posting anything about any Chinese leader is verboten.

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