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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago

mental health, breakdownAttempting to feel better playing old vidya and tearing up when "you are hurt, get to cover!" popped up on the screen

catgirl-cry

[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 8 points 2 hours ago

muh booba no longer itchy but sore at the lightest touch shatter

[โ€“] Bat@hexbear.net 7 points 2 hours ago

Went and touch-grass for a while today, that was nice

dysphoria

I usually don't go out much and when I do I hide myself under as many layers of clothes that the weather preempts but since I was out in the sun hiking for a couple of hours I couldn't wear my oversized sweater and I had my hair up. Seeing my shoulders not being obscured by hair or tons of layers gave me so much dysphoria. I fucking hate how broad my shoulders are

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

it's 2025 and i'm not afraid to say it: ryan and sharpay are better than troy and gabriella

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 5 points 42 minutes ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 3 points 17 minutes ago

this post was verified by true american doggirls stalin-approval

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Someone needs to get on making a computer worm that downloads the rust book to your machine and encrypts everything else on your hard drive until you've finished reading it. This is how we trans the world. hehe. HEHEHE. MWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

can you explain the borrow checker in laywoman's terms, that's the one major piece of rust that I don't understand

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 3 points 1 hour ago

Basically in Rust every piece of data has exactly one owner, and when that owner doesn't exist anymore, the data doesn't either. But often times you want to have multiple different ways to access the same data. For example, if you're calling a function and passing in owned data, there can only be one owner, so the function has to take ownership of that data. When the function returns, the variable that owns that data goes out of scope, and boom there goes that data. So if you try to access that data again after calling the function, you'll get an error. This is incredibly annoying behavior. What you want is some way for the function to be able to tell the compiler "no no I don't actually want to own this data, I just want to borrow it." This is what borrowing is. We're telling the compiler that we don't want to tie the lifetime of our data to the variable in the function call. The data will still be lost when the original variable dies, and doesn't care about the new one. Problem solved. But now that we have a concept of borrowing, it introduces some nuanced potential issues. This is what the borrow checker is for. It's job is to make sure you haven't done anything stupid with the power borrows give you.

For example, its entirely possible for you to write some code that borrows some data, but the owner of that data goes out of scope (taking the data with it) before the borrow does. Then the borrow would be trying to hold onto data that no longer exists. The borrow checker makes sure you don't do this.

The second issue you could run into involves mutable references, which I'm sure you've seen. Let's say you have some data owned by some variable. Let's say that you also have one immutable borrow and one mutable borrow to that data, active at the same time. So the mutable borrow is allowed to make changes to the data, but the immutable borrow is making the assumption that the data can't change. So the borrow checker won't let you do this because the whole point of an immutable reference is that it doesn't change.

Lastly, let's say you have 2 mutable references. This would make it possible to have a data race, where both references are trying to edit the data at the same time, and end up messing each other up. So Rust says no. You're only allowed to have one mutable reference at a time.

As long as your program never breaks these few rules, you've appeased the borrow checker. This is often easier said than done though

[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

yall got any tips for getting rid of adhesive residue from (reads box) silicone adhesive and acrylic adhesive? I'm running out of viable spots to put my patches on

I still got a decent amount of thigh to put these on, but I need a plan for when it starts getting to the edges

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

You can get special adhesive remover wipes or those little alcohol pads work good, that's what I use at work for nicotine patches or IV tegaderm patches. For kids and babies they sometimes have little wiggle pad thingies on their cheeks and then the time comes to take it off (cause they don't need extra O2 anymore) we use the gentle adhesive remover.

When I was using patches, I just did a vigorous scrub and soap and then pick up any extra with alcohol swabs. All the residue and shit was part of the reason I switched to injections

[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago

All the residue and shit was part of the reason I switched to injections

thonk I had not thought of this, thank you madame

[โ€“] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 6 points 5 hours ago

depressing maybe? idkHaven't broken down crying in over 48 hours - that's a 2025 record! Ya girl is killing it over here.

Desperately hoping that the "not crying" is unrelated to the "not sleeping." catgirl-flop

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 11 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I'm unhealthily addicted to sweaters and cardigans

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago
[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

What should my new account name be when I stop tomboymoding? doggirl-hi

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 6 hours ago

If you're staying on-brand, @puppygirlmoder or @doggirlmoder

[โ€“] KatGirl@hexbear.net 8 points 6 hours ago

Been wanting to get into drawing so I can draw my own Yuri, just annoying breaking past my perfectionism to actually draw stuff

[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 14 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

People on r/mtf really feel so comfortable talking about being in the military/vets and so many people are happy to engage with it. There's a special level of disgust I have for queer people in the military.

It's reddit, so no surprise of course.

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Iโ€™m glad I grew out of my immature โ€œCOD and the military are so coolโ€ phase and realized I was a wimp and a trxnny and that the US kinda sucks before turning 18.

[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 7 points 6 hours ago

Too bad that first realization doesn't always lead to the second haha

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 6 points 6 hours ago

Work was hell on nearly no sleep. I go eep eep now. =w=

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (3 children)

I got 3/4 of my wisdom teeth pulled today and this is the most physical pain I have ever been in

Also I don't think I can do the aftercare ("irrigation") which I have to, god.

I had all 4 pulled the same day. I was put under some kind of sedation and I was told I wouldn't remember it, but I do! That hurt so bad. I don't remember the drive back home, as far as I can remember they finished the surgery and I stood up then NOTHING then waking up on the couch watching pre schooler cartoons lol

[โ€“] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Do the irrigation, meow-knife-trans you really do not want a dry socket.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 5 hours ago

Yea I'm going to, but I'm not going to be able to and I'm going to be fucked.

+1 THAT shit hurts.

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

I feel really dumb, but I didn't get any fun meds. Just my usual level of I am dumb.

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

bit idea: Terf who keeps deadnaming cities and other geographic locations

Nieuw Amsterdam, or sorry, """New York""" or whatever it's going by these days ๐Ÿ™„

You mean Manhatta

[โ€“] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 10 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

This makes istanbul not constantinople a pro trans song in this bit I think

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 9 hours ago

TERF voice: "IT'S BYZANTION"

[โ€“] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 6 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

That's right, we have to go back in time to the first gender reveal party to take being cis off the menu!

[โ€“] Babs@hexbear.net 16 points 11 hours ago

Welp it's official, my queer culturally-specific worksite isn't anymore. The county has taken over our intake process and are just gonna start sending us cishet people now with no screening process. Also our budget is getting cut and I'm being given strict monthly quotas to house people (none of my clients have an income, and there's fewer housing vouchers than ever).

It's been a good run I guess.

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

hot take but. i really love my wife

[โ€“] Kuori@hexbear.net 9 points 13 hours ago

cw: drug usefeeling like i picked a good week to stop smoking weed agony-4horsemen

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