this post was submitted on 18 Mar 2025
98 points (98.0% liked)

Asklemmy

46624 readers
698 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy πŸ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

What would be the acceptability of this in your workplace? For context, which country and industry are you in?

I guess I'm mainly thinking about professional jobs, but interested to hear from. I think in France it would be quite common to have a glass of wine, even at a work canteen or so. But in the UK it seems like people would think that was a problem, and in a lot of cases you'd be in violation of something at work.

top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] festus@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago

When I worked for a startup we'd sometimes go out for lunch and everyone would have a drink or two. We also kept beer in the office fridge but that was reserved for more Friday afternoons.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago

I've had white collar jobs where champagne breakfast was a thing, and blue collar jobs with heavy equipment where driving with any degree of intoxication had serious consequences but, surprisingly enough, not necessarily dismissal.

Also, decades ago, I worked with skilled laborers who would have a beer over lunch, and with concrete finishers who would drink a case of beer between 2 or 3 people while working. I feel like concrete finishers used to work for a flat dollar rate plus beer. If there was enough beer, they would stay all night long.

[–] fishy 8 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I work in corporate retail in the USA. It's generally acceptable if you're out of the office on a business lunch. Cracking open a beer in the kitchen at lunch probably wouldn't have any immediate consequences but you're probably looking outside of the company for a promotion.

[–] Sadbutdru@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 hours ago

Lol, yeah I was definitely picturing a restaurant setting. Drinking white cider in the alley on your lunch break, or going to a toilet cubicle with a bottle of vodka, really projects a different image...

[–] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 5 hours ago

In my past life, I worked as Data Manager in a movie, at the lunch break, everyone would smoke pot as if nothing. I couldn't do it because I can't use computers while high.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

yeah I like to have around 7 at lunch and then puke and shit and piss all over my desk

[–] andrewth09@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

Depending on your company culture, 5 to 10 drinks may be considered the socially acceptable limit for a work lunch. Pissing at your desk is mandatory. Shitting and puking is optional.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 7 hours ago

your are in Asia also

[–] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 12 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I'm a welder, and no I would not. It's not allowed on the shipyard. But even if I could, I wouldn't. I'm a professional and I'm working with high power tools & equipment. I need to have a clear head.

[–] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 3 points 7 hours ago

The trades aint what they used to be πŸ˜”

[–] andrewth09@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

In the US at a white collar job. 1 (2 max) drinks every once in a long while for a work lunch is acceptable. Depends on how comfortable you are with your coworkers and if anyone else seems willing to drink a beer or two.

[–] vfreire85@lemmy.ml 1 points 7 hours ago
[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (2 children)

When I go lunch I go home for the day. I only work in the morning.

So, no need of alcohol to cope with overwork.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

how?? this is like my wet dream.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 37 minutes ago* (last edited 36 minutes ago)

I work in europe in sector that have signed that we only have to work 35 hours a week. So I work 8 to 15 and that's it.

The secret sauce is that we have massive unions. So we have achieve a lot of labor rights.

You should see my desk is full of propaganda of 4 different unions, and everyone desk is the same, Unions are very present in my sector.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 7 hours ago

im taking a shit

[–] FellowEnt@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 hours ago

Used to work in marketing, UK. There was a frew beer fridge, with instructions to only help yourselves after 1630 on a Friday. Beers at lunch were fairly standard on a Friday, less so on other days but not unheard of.

[–] blade_barrier@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

Since I work from home... this is totally acceptable.

[–] fubarx@lemmy.world 12 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Software guy. Most productive/distraction free time of the day is mid-afternoon. Drinking at lunch would just take that zone away and push everything to the next day.

Happy to wait till 5pm, or whenever feels like a good time to do a git push.

[–] superkret@feddit.org 2 points 7 hours ago
[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 6 points 14 hours ago

alternatively, i’ve found the bulmer peak concept to be entirely real: a drink sometimes helps you to just do rather than spending too much time thinking about if what you’re doing is best… it can help with decision paralysis on the micro scale

that said, you can train yourself out of decision paralysis and as someone gets more experienced this is likely to be less and less helpful

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

Depends on what drink it is, I think that a beer would be acceptable in most places, hard liquor brobably not.

[–] WhatSay@slrpnk.net 11 points 16 hours ago

I used to think it was unprofessional. But once I had a few jobs where employees were treated like crap, I changed my mind.

[–] psud@aussie.zone 5 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

IT worker in system analysis and design in the public service in Canberra, Australia.

There's no official policy though many of my co workers believe a lunch time drink is not allowed. I have often enjoyed a couple of glasses of wine or a beer at lunch, have never made a secret of it, and have never been told off or warned by anyone above me

[–] sangriaferret@sh.itjust.works 15 points 23 hours ago

Bartender. I don't get a lunch break so I just drink on the clock.

[–] Firipu@startrek.website 5 points 19 hours ago

Where I work, it's a non issue. As long as it doesn't impact your work and nobody notices it (foul odor or behaviour), nobody could care less.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 day ago (4 children)

UK/Astronaut

We take a fifth of gin everytime our home country whizzes by, so that's a full glass over the entire workday, and it tends to make the job go faster.

load more comments (4 replies)
[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Pretty much everwhere I've worked; there's a no alcohol or drugs clause in the employment contract/policies. So officially it's not permitted; but one beer, or a couple hits from a dab pen (weed vape) hasn't been uncommon in most places either; just don't let management see it.

[–] Sadbutdru@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

It gets to be a big liability for the individual then tho, even if the company don't regularly enforce the rule, you're opening up an easy way for someone to get you out of your job if they take a dislike to you sore any petty reason...

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 hours ago

Ofc, there's always risk when you're going against company policy/your contract.

I'm not saying I recommend smoking/drinking at work; just that it's not uncommon.

[–] Kalon@feddit.online 51 points 1 day ago (3 children)

School bus driver here. Drinks at lunch would not be a good idea.

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] Sequentialsilence@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Part of my job involves operate hoists that are lifting several tonnes over the general public. Anything that is even impairment adjacent, like being tired, will get you removed from that position. If you are actually impaired you’re fired no questions.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] temporal_spider@lemm.ee 2 points 17 hours ago

Years ago, I was working on a house where there were several nests of these wicked looking red wasps. I had been working around them all morning quite safely. At lunch, I drank half a beer, and was almost immediately stung twice when I went back to work. I don't know if it affected my timing or my scent, or something else.

When I worked in kitchens and bars? Regularly

Now, driving a forklift and using a nail gun every day.. I’ll wait till I get home

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 40 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Canadian IT worker.

I refuse to drink at work parties. Everyone else does and I get some peer pressure to drink but I don't care. Its normal to see people get super drunk and embarrass themselves which is why I don't even start.

Specifically at lunch, if I'm not driving and others are having a beer I will but only one. If I'm driving, it depends on how I'm feeling.

Working from home I've been known to have a beer or two on a Friday afternoon by my self.

When I left my last job we had a meeting at the end of the day with the guys I got along with and anyone they wanted to invite. There was about 15 people from different departments with their cameras on having a drink or smoking (pot) if they didn't drink as a goodbye. Was a nice goodbye. Lol

[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I've drank, and got drunk, at exactly one work function in my current capacity. The living hell that was a day of serious meetings with 3 hours of sleep and a wicked hangover/still being drunk has made all other functions water and bed by 9:30 affairs.

Luckily everyone in the meetings had either made the same mistake before, or were functioning alcoholics, so the fallout was just being a pile of misery.

If a VP decides to take everyone for drinks at a club after the official function, at absolute most show up to nurse one drink then leave. Do not be the last one out the door.

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] pr06lefs@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I went back to work once (programming) after a couple of beers at the bar. Turns out not a job I can do while drinking.

[–] Botzo@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago
[–] philluminati@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 day ago

UK IT dev here. When I started working in the field back in 2000ish it was perfectly fine for IT staff to pop to the pub. Did for many years. Then in my 20s it became normal to have drinks after work rather than during work. Then when marriage etc came along, it became neither.

[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 5 points 22 hours ago

No. Work is giant liability now days.

[–] cituskai@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago

I see no problem with a single drink at lunch, specially with your team. It helps you relax and build rapport imo.

At my previous job, my manager would take our 5-6 people team out for lunch and a beer for anyone's birthday and at the end of the year. I miss that.

My current job doesn't allow it, so going out for lunch with co workers is a little more stiff, and so is my relationship with my manager.

Last christmas I had to work during the break with only 1 co-worker, we snuck out and had pizza with a berr. It was great.

[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Used to work for a company that started out as a US startup for IT Services, later it was purchased by a large German company.

During its startup days, you did not dare drink alcohol at lunch time.

After being bought by the German company, you did not dare NOT to drink alcohol at lunch time. Especially if someone from Germany was visiting. They viewed it odd that we had an aversion to drinking beer at lunch.

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

US/Engineer

At my first job, a fairly large firm with a few hundred people, I remember the furtive glances around the table as everyone didn't want to be the first one to order a beer. Once a single person ordered one, several others would too. The boss was fine with it, but nobody did it in front of the boss's boss. We never had more than one, though.

At my second job, a small, new company with 12ish people, it was pretty common. Sometimes someone would bring a six pack to share into the office on a Friday afternoon. Usually, the owners would join in.

At my current job in the public sector, the culture just isn't there. Nobody drinks at all during work hours. I don't drink as much anymore, anyway.

load more comments
view more: next β€Ί