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[–] jpablo68@infosec.pub 2 points 43 minutes ago

a good solid baseball community, and a sportbook community.

[–] oakward@feddit.org 2 points 53 minutes ago

A balance between communities. There are communities that are very active and fill my feed. Although those community are OK, I am much more interested in some smaller and niche communities. Those get lost in the feed.

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

The Colorado avalanche subreddit having more than 2 people

[–] SereneSadie@lemmy.myserv.one 0 points 1 hour ago

Activity that isn't political shit.

Convenience of blocking. Voyager is absolute ass in this regard.

Being able to conveniently filter out entire subreddits. (Actually I say that but I did have multiple cases where the block list just straight up stopped working.)

The echo chamber also feels way stronger here. It's tiring. Especially the ACAB wank, which hasn't improved with the rise of Nazi America.

[–] Zugyuk@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Hide on vote was pretty nice. I used rif before they closed 3rd party apps, and I came to Lemmy

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Don't know if you know but we have hide on read in the settings, but I also wish it worked like on Reddit.

youtuber communities

[–] auginator@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

My points or whatever. I used to be a huge pot head and made some content people really liked so I had some nice numbers.

[–] _cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 hours ago

absolutely nothing.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

The app - Baconreader was so smooth. I'm getting used to the fediverse one, but there are still a lot of decisions by the devs that I hate.

The sheer amount of queer porn - it wasn't even enough because my tastes are.... Varying. But the feed of porn on fediverse is weak as fuck, with a lot of it being really boring and aimed at boring people who are not me (cishet men). I'm confident this will eventually get remedied, but it DID also take like a decade for even Reddit to get good porn, with its own ups and downs.

That being said, there's still so much more to love on fediverse that I don't need to look back to Reddit for. It feels like going from high school to a really big, really liberal college (Reddit->fediverse). I can openly do so much stuff, like say fuck nazis, which I regularly do, and very much mean. I can even say stuff like "the only good nazi..." and people will know what I'm talking about AND agree with, thank fuck. It's just a much more grown up place here, and I'm much more comfortable being closer to being able to speak my mind without having to censor myself, and I've noticed this in other people, too, that there's far less conformity to respectability politics, and people actually say what they think, regardless of how bizarre or unhinged it is, I truly love that.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Yup, the porn is lacking. I think part of the problem is all gay porn gets downvoted on World even if it's posted on LemmyNSFW, and the one posted on World is simply not welcome. I tried but it didn't catch on so I let it be. :/

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

The app - Baconreader was so smooth. I’m getting used to the fediverse one, but there are still a lot of decisions by the devs that I hate.

Have you used Voyager, Thunder, Summit?

https://www.lemmyapps.com/

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

In like 2023 and a little last year, I tried out literally a dozen of them. Most of them were in earlier stages of development and were VERY space wasteful whilst also showing very little data AND having no customizations to fix that stuff. I'm currently using Sync, and as long as I customize the shit out of it, it's bearable.

I tried: jerboa, kbin, connect, voyager, lemmotif, thunder, liftoff, summit, sync, a different voyager, tundra, and artemis.

I eventually got burnt out on trying and trying to customize each app, and settled on sync I guess.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Sync hasn't been updated for a long time, and will stop working with Lemmy 1.0, I would recommend to have a look at the 3 above when you have some time.

!summit@lemmy.world has been active lately

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 hour ago

Son of a bitch. Gfdi seriously. Ugh. Well that sucks. Hopefully the dev either open source's the app or comes back when it breaks, because I'm getting really sick of searching for new apps and platforms right now to turn to for momentary and intermittent dopamine hits, socializing, memes, and conversations.

I just updated my summit app and I'll have to look at how it handles now and I'll need to import my multiple fediverse accounts and see if I can customize it to be functional for me, because it and every other app had ui problems like crazy. I tend to be a minimalist that hates huge previews, wasted space, waiting, and gestures. If it's foss, maybe I'll learn the platform and develop for it, because I'm seriously sick of half baked and funky designs and unintuitive ui/ux.

[–] ozamataz@lemm.ee 8 points 8 hours ago

The subreddits for individual sports teams, posting comments in game threads with a hundred other fans of your team from around the world.

[–] TokenEffort@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 hours ago

r/libraryofbabel, r/tragedeigh, and r/everyoneknowsthat. But I can live without them.

Tragedeigh gets depressing sometimes as someone who had a horrible name growing up. Libraryofbabel kinda encourages my maladaptive daydreaming and honestly creating !0x255@sh.itjust.works wasn't the best for trying to break out of my daydreaming addiction.

However I can get my Who's Who updates somewhere else. Everyone knows ~~that~~ it, you've got ulterior motives!

[–] mac@lemm.ee 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Subs/communities for actively watched shows. I find myself needing to browser redlib for insights on, most recently, the white lotus and the last of us

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 2 points 8 hours ago

I still go back to reddit for r/severanceappletvplus.

!severance@lemmy.world is nice, but not the same.

[–] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Really just the quantity of people, especially on ask subs. Lemmy just feels incredibly empty. And the breadth of topics people discuss here is extremely small.

[–] milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

For me it's also the breadth of people there.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Gift and a curse. Gift when some random person has a hilarious, crazy story. Curse because now it is infected with average people who are extremely materialistic, closed minded, and enchained by limiting self beliefs. So it quickly becomes a cesspool of hate, depression, and crab bucketing.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Yup! I don't miss the latter half at all. There's still plenty of stupid walking around Lemmy but it's manageable.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

It's the worst thing about Lemmy and all it really does is make me more hesitant to squander potential friends by acting shitty, and less liable to spend hours chatting.

[–] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I could go on a sub like NoStupidQuestions or AskElectricans, etc where someone would ask a question about some super obscure topic I happen to be knowledgeable on. I could write a long, in-depth response which would then get dozens of responses and further questions. I'd be engaged in the same conversation about this topic or that for days.

Here, it feels like 99% of conversations are about IT/programming, which is not my field, or about American politics.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

Yeah no, it's not the best. But I'd still curl that monkey's paw any day

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 9 points 12 hours ago

Larger population of users = more content and more communities

[–] tauren@lemm.ee 40 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Active posts that aren't about linux or politics.

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 2 points 53 minutes ago

Hey now, we also have programming and meta-fediverse discussions as well /s

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 9 points 17 hours ago

Have a look at the pinned post on !communitypromo@lemmy.ca

[–] insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Specific TV show episode threads. I loved reading what people thought, things I'd missed, etc.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Same. The r/severanceappletvplus threads are amazing.

[–] insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

I would generally be watching out of sync so I'd have full threads to enjoy, rich content very often.

[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 2 points 10 hours ago

Mostly the funny memes but also nothing else

[–] AnonArdvark@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 9 hours ago
[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 33 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Active communities that aren't about Linux

[–] invertedspear@lemm.ee 8 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Active communities, period.

Reddit started out without subreddits. Eventually grew too big for that so split into topical channels. Then the channel would get too big and a niche would subdivide out. When Lemmy started, or more so when there was the first big exodus from Reddit, all of that was recreated, but without the users. So we have a ton of dead communities that really need to be rolled up and cleaned up.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 2 points 7 hours ago

That happens regularly on !fedigrow@lemm.ee

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[–] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 83 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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[–] Libb@jlai.lu 7 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (3 children)

r/simpleliving or, more exactly, a more active version of it since the community is there: !simpleliving@lemm.ee. And more people participating in the !journaling@sh.itjust.works community too but hopefully we're slowly getting there.

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