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Increasingly, authoritarians are likening ‘genderism’ to ‘communism’ and ‘totalitarianism’

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[–] b161@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 2 months ago

As capitalism destroys the world it turns to fascism and needs scapegoats to distract from the fact that the actual problem is capitalism.

[–] megopie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

They have to blame anything but the actual cause of problems, because the causes are ether too complex for a simple answer, or require them to question systems they benefit from.

[–] ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago

This summarizes the bulk of my essay comment.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 21 points 2 months ago

hold strong everyone 💗 🏳️‍🌈

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

Because bad actors are making money by weaponizing gender and dumb people are eating up what those bad actors are selling.

[–] AbraKadabra1993@reddthat.com 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Some people get angry when they don't understand something, and a lot of those same people are often unwilling or unable to make an effort at understanding things.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, something that I've noticed about a lot of people that have strong opinions about transgender people is that it's clear that they've never once taken the time to get to know anything about the people that they hate.

I've spoken to one person that thought non-binary and bisexual are the same thing. And looked confused when I tried to explain the difference. And another person speaking about trans women saying "if they like men, why don't they just be gay?" It seems to me that most people don't differentiate between biological sex, gender and sexual attraction. And when they think they're talking about one, they're actually talking about another.

It's just plain ignorance all around. Willing ignorance. Like people with first grade maths education trying to dictate the rules of calculus.

And I understand that no one knows everything, especially when they haven't been exposed to certain things in their lives. Before I started spending time in certain circles, I was clueless about things that seem obvious to me now. So I get that.

But then they need to shut the fuck up and sit back down, if they're not planning on ever actually enlightening themselves. They need to go back to their small worlds that their small minds can handle and leave the rest of us alone.

I don't hate that they lack knowledge. I hate that they lack knowledge, make no effort to change that but have strong opinions about things that they know fuck all about anyway.

[–] AbraKadabra1993@reddthat.com 3 points 2 months ago

Very well said

[–] ToastedPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago

It is thankfully the vast majority of the time a case of being unwilling. People can change their minds, but it takes time. The better outcomes for society and the planet depended on convincing people to change their minds as soon as possible.

[–] Fingolfinz@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

As tempting as it is to just think something along the lines of "everyone is just hateful and dumb" I think it's entirely possible that there is some fundamental issue with our messaging. Focus on the things you can control.

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Considering these freaks have been killing us for centuries I'm going to disagree. I think the ability to not easily be silenced, to share stories globally that won't simply be erased by "taking care of" someone is what's actually pissing them off.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I think this is definitely part of it, but there's a key point that you're both missing: Conservatives need someone to hate.

In the past it was gay people, abortion, that sort of thing. But gay rights are now very much supported by a majority of people, and abortion is either illegal federally in the US, or well supported in places it's legal (which was also true of the US). So, they needed a new scapegoat to whip up furore against and, unfortunately, we happen to be it. I think especially because we're so much more visible these days, that it's easy to point to us as a problem. Back in the 90s, when we were much more hidden, most people wouldn't have cared. But these days, most people have met (or at least seen) a trans person. The unfamiliar can be uncomfortable for people, and some choose not to address that, letting themselves be easily taken advantage of. As various conservative parties across the world have seen this to be an effective method of sowing division, they've adopted these policies for themselves.

Yeah they do which is why the whole ideology needs to be destroyed.

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You know, I agree with you, but we're already on the same team. Keep in mind though, we aren't trying to change the minds of the few powerful and evil motherfuckers who want us all dead. It can't be done. We want the average person to side with us, and the average person builds logical arguments around their emotions, not the other way around.

The average person is not a murderous freak and being made out to be one simply because they aren't on board with something they don't understand will absolutely harbor negative sentiment. They aren't going to be discerning and they are going to take this to be about them. And like I said, then the logical arguments get built around that negative sentiment. Then they start voting, and so on.

I'm not saying calm down, because you shouldn't. But red-hot messaging does not help. Turn the temperature down and you'll see more people agreeing with you who, importantly, didn't already agree with you BEFORE they read your message.

I feel like we already did that, that whenever there was push back we had stepped back and turned down the fire. That people presented logical and reasonable information, whenever possible. I think the problem is by turning down the fire then we allowed rich conservatives to control the narrative. Then we allowed them to say that "we can fix the economy (that we broke) but you have to abandon your morals and these people here that you honestly don't care about". That was good enough there were a bunch of people that really said "that's fucked up but get gas under $2 again" and they voted for them.

I'm saying it now we need to drag those people. Shame them because gas never got below $2. I don't need them to understand , what I need is for them to say they is that, they're not a doctor, therapist, social worker, etc. so they have no valid opinions or facts. They're not Lgbt+ they're sure as hell not trans or a trans parent, they signed on with hate and they made everything worse for everyone. And we can't make them forget it, if they could learn from positive messaging it would have already worked. If logic worked then they'd have already realized that in the last 3 decades every fucking time there's been a large amount of Republicans in control everything generally gets worse if you're an average mother fucker. And part of it is these fucking tax breaks that keep getting approved. The other part is voting in general which is why they've done everything in their power to make it impossible in some places.

I don't need them to agree with me , I need them to agree to mind their own business and keep that torture shit in their own cult.

[–] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Some good points, but the text seems bloated and urging. Yes, "anti-genderism" is fascist, but that word has lost a lot of its scare power.

[–] EmilyIsTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I don't think Butler is going for "scare power", she is simply trying to accurately describe institutional transphobia. I think it's important to recognise and treat transphobia as an inherently a fascist ideology.

[–] Zoop@beehaw.org 2 points 2 months ago

Thank you for sharing this. I look forward to reading it when I'm able to. Much love to you! 💕