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Heya Everyone, new Mega time and for it, I'm gonna advertise a TTRPG system called Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

A sword duel can end in kissing, a witch can gain her power by helping others find love, and an entire campaign can be built around wandering matchmakers flying from system to system.

Thirsty Sword Lesbians is a roleplaying game for telling queer stories with friends. If you love angsty disaster lesbians with swords, you have come to the right place.

In this book, you’ll find:

Flirting, sword-fighting, and zingers in a system designed for both narrative drama and player safety.

An innovative take on the Powered by the Apocalypse family of games.

Nine character types, each focusing on a particular emotional conflict: Beast, Chosen, Devoted, Infamous, Nature Witch, Scoundrel, Seeker, Spooky Witch, and Trickster.

Guidance and support for running the game, including how to make appealing adversaries, set the tone, pace the game, and structure play.

Tools to create your own settings and stories, alongside a dozen pre-written options including the cyberpunk Neon City 2099, steamfunk poets battling oppression as Les Violettes Dangereuses, laser swords and intrigue in the Starcross Galaxy, and more.

World building worksheet for custom scenarios and starting scenario seeds to play with: Best Day of Their Lives, The Constellation Festival, Gal Paladins, and Sword Lesbians of the Three Houses Variant rules to highlight different identities, emotional connections, and setting elements.

Strategies to adapt any setting where swords cross and hearts race for Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

Here's a link to their website, I did copy everything over directly from it because I put off writing the Mega this week. I was drawing a blank on what I wanted to talk about. catgirl-huh

https://evilhat.com/product/thirsty-sword-lesbians/

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

bad family stuff, bad mental health, addictionDad had a fall (stroke?) and went to the ICU

Thought I was done with all of it already mentally since he's been awful and declining a lot for years now but I'm still more fucked up by it than I thought I'd be

Had like 3 months dry and relapsed and got cigs again too

I feel really bad about it, mostly for disappointing my best friend that's been really helpful helping me stay on the wagon

I just want this awful part of my life to finally be over

I want to be able to say I hope things will get better from here but idk

I hate how I can spend my whole life seeing the worst example of "here's why you shouldn't become an alcoholic" and still can't shake it for good

Real nurture/nature conundrum

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

a lot of deeply buried childhood religious trauma resurfacing tonight 🫠

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago

meow-hug It was a lot for me to unpack, I'm sorry.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago

mental health, alcoholI think drinking too much lately threw off my brain chemistry or something and now my baseline anxiety feels a lot higher and it's overwhelming and exhausting

Just having a constant ambient dread of "something bad's about to happen" that doesn't need to make sense to still make me all tense and like my heart rate is too high

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

i'm turning your golf course into a park and there's nothing you can do about it

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago (8 children)

very hornygood lord i boofed my prog instead of doing it orally for once last night and oh Venus I am fucking feeling it now panting

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I feel like I should write a romance novel despite having so little experience. I feel like I'd be good at writing the coyness and angst. And it just seems fun.

nsfwNot to mention how apparently I'm quite good at writing smut...

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago (7 children)

You could start off with a short story or a novella if an entire novel seems a bit too daunting. Probably a good way to gain the experience you’re lacking.

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago

FUCK mcr is amazing, the only reason I don't listen to them as much as I used to is because these hoes won't release NEW MUSIC

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago

I don’t know how to say this without it sounding like a meme, but I kind of hate my philtrum.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

Last night the only dream I can remember was one of my scripts firing and seeing the command line output. I read and and thought to myself it exceeded the rate limits and probably silently failed. When I woke up I checked and yes its working fine as far as I can tell.

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago

The Truman Show is a trans allegory.

Discuss.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

we haven't had proper rain since like march

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

after near-constant rain last year, this is awful

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago

about that doge cuck (yk, the one)i've been seeing so many "grok btfos!!!! (gone sexual) elon musk in twitter replies" posts on reddit. This has got to be one of those psyops to get liberals to use it right

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

deadnaming, sort of?so I finished my voice training course, and they sent me like a little "graduation certificate" which is cute and whatever... but they got my name wrong on it, they put the incorrect last name. So now I'm sitting here anxious trying to not feel like a troublesome asshole or whatever for being like "heey, can you give me one with my actual correct name on it?" doggirl-sweat

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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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