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Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith

Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life

She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day

I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl


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[–] SockOlm@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I've successfully finished my finals :)

Stalin would be proud catgirl-salute

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (8 children)

coming out/worryingOut to almost all my friends now. Meant to be all of them but ran out of time. He knows I want to have a serious convo though. Who let me do this 😭 I don't know how to navigate this. It's never been modeled for me. I don't know any trans people irl idk how to do this. I can kinda tell they haven't either. I really hope things don't become awkward. I can't believe I'm actually doing this. Actually living as a trans person, being out and stuff...

Also people have offered to help me but I don't know what I need from them. Or what I could ask for (like something gender affirming) that wouldn't feel super awkward. Especially thinking about my cisf friend.

Wanted to put these thoughts to words for a few hours and now I'm super tired, actually just fell asleep for like an hour, I hope this makes sense.

Oh also and like they've said they're supportive, and one has definitely been trying I feel like, I still worry about what they actually think of me 😒

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 3 weeks ago

Turns out I'm actually a very expressive person. Been having so many online meetings at work and the amount of times I just smile or have some visible reaction to people is really cute I think. Maybe even starting to actually like my smile after years of hating it.

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I’ve had 2 recent experiences where I felt like a gay guy was flirting with me and there’s no way that’s actually what was happening because I don’t really look like a guy yet. It does make me excited for the future though

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[–] Bruja@hexbear.net 12 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Bruja@hexbear.net 12 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Almost as lovely as her former caretaker!

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago
[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Had a powerful dream where all my previous lovers outed themselves as gay for me in a ritualistic way and begged me to date them. I stepped on them and walked away, they don’t deserve me.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

you're telling me a chihuahua fridayed this rice?? circle-quad-2

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

does anyone hear a distant yapping sound

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

Oh yeah, i’m on that bi-cycle sicko-biker ! hexbear-bi

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[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 12 points 4 weeks ago

Hestia left-unity-2 Estra

Putting off the mega till last minute

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm like 4 years too late to the party with this game but there's this one little detail about Hades that I noticed and absolutely adore and need to talk about for a second?

almost every character has a unique thing they refer to Zagreus as. "Prince Zed/Your Highness. Lad. Boy. Little Hades. Nephew. Grandson. My Kin. My Little Godling. Cousin. My Son. My Child. Zag/Man. Stranger. Hon. Boyo. All of those are from different characters and it gives the game so much life that half the cast has a unique thing they refer to Zagreus, the player character as and it's just... MMMM. peak writing

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I'm supposed to sit at my desk and work even when I'm overwhelmed with sapphic yearning? wtf, this is homophobic.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

sicko-fem finally got around to doing my eyebrows and damn i did a good job i think

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Trying to figure out what I potentially want to do with my hair going forward, but it’s hard because you see people with all kinds of hairstyles but you have no idea if your hair is suitable for it or what they have done to it necessarily. kel-screm

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

unfortunately, I'm not breedable, I'm readable. I have a terrible poker face and it says so much more than I ever conciously realize

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Okay

I've obviously not been in the best spot lately

Is coming out to my friend/manager a good idea or no? She's gay and has gay friends tbf. But I don't know about trans people. Also my shave still fucking sucks. It'd be in like 9 hours, maybe a bit more. Or uh I could chicken out again. Just has been on my mind a lot.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

It's always a gamble with the cis, but being queer increases their chance of being supportive.

You also don't have to worry about things like your shave. You can say that you're not safe at home to transition, so you may not look it, but you're a trans girl.

It would be nice to be around someone who knows who you are at work.

After that, if you feel safe, you can talk name and pronouns with her.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (24 children)

I know a lot about shaving. So if you need some help, I can definitely give you some tips, which will drastically improve your shave.

Just let me know. lea-finger-guns

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

Saw Sinners last night, amazing movie. absolute-cinema

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago

Meredith was a cute little nugget, thank you for sharing her with us :)

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

All my friends pretend to be woke but they all doggirl-sleep, curious probably having gay ass dreams just like the girl reading this comment phoenix-evidence

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

I made the mistake of re-visiting the Hank Green HRT stuff from last year (where he basically gave a bunch of harmful misinformation which he never corrected). I'm reading reddit comments and getting so angry at redditors from a year ago.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

pissthing i've noticed change after about 6 weeks sober: my piss is starting to become noticably yellow again. most likely because i'm not constantly drinking a diuretic. this is probably a good sign but also weird to have happen

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Made the mistake of looking at pictures of myself today. It's so over

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Bad day. Horrible day in fact catgirl-cry

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Go from being sad I'm alone sicko-wistful to hell yeah vocel gang big-cool in my vocel gang arc party-blob

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[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Got a haircut recently and this time it actually turned out really well. Last time I got my hair butchered and was really upset about it.

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[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I love how I look in makeup, but I actuality love how I look more when I wake up all disheveled, having slept in my makeup. Idk why, it's peak though, I look cute!

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Trans men are all either Goku or Vegeta. Send tweet. Close mentions.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago
[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

Applying to a couple jobs and like, they didn't even give the option of "is this your legal name?" Or "are you trans?" In the affirmative action portion. Just "male or female?"

What they did put was "by signing this you give us permission to verify this information."

And none of the places except for my current employer have known me by my current name, but I haven't legally changed it yet so...

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Keep thinking of my height, got measured yesterday and like still the same. Just thought well duh I'm not getting taller but the horror dawned on me of what if the reverse scared might not be able to reach up on the top shelf where we keep the good shit away from the shorties

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